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There should have been contract and paperwork saying who will pay what but anyways just find a way to deal with it. Pay him or dont lol
Exactly, I would understand if the activities were used for procrastination and avoiding life responsibilities, but in my case they are just used to unwind in balance with all the other “adulting” stuff I do. Or as background for some of that stuff sometimes, like listening to music while folding laundry. Which literally hurts no one when I do it with headphones.
I do know that his rehab and therapist recommended avoiding these activities in early recovery because they (a) are often associated with alcohol use (especially things like playing video games and watching sports) and (b) can be used to escape difficult feelings, and it's important to stop to process those feelings as they come up instead of pushing them aside to consume media. This was confirmed when I attended the family sessions while he was in rehab as well as a few sessions with his therapist that I was requested to attend. But I would be curious to find out how long it's recommended that he avoid these things because doing so for life isn't realistic – or would make for a pretty dull and sad life anyway in my view.
This made me laugh. Absolutely nailed it. Dudes struggle enough in open relationships as it is (though it takes a lot of them a minute to figure that out, based on all the dudes out there who hassle their partners into non-monogamy & then are all sad trombone when she has three dates a week & he has zero). This poor bastard doesn't stand a chance compared to his vivacious, experienced, confident girlfriend.
OP, it sounds like you're not really satisifed on a relationship level. Better to just cut this guy loose. Doesn't mean he's not a great guy. He's just not the right guy for you, so don't torture him with this open relationship malarkey.
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Its for peace of mind that the dude will not have her number. Its not like she will lose her contacts
Could you be more specific? I don't know how to navigate this..
No. No. No. She was injured. Classic sign of SA. You know your GF who moved across the country for YOU. Stop being ridiculous and support her, for heaven’s sake. Love is a verb. Just love her!
Get her to figure out her hobbies again. All too often as parents– especially mother's our identity is wrapped up in taking care of the children and home.
What is she into? Reading, crafting, cosplay, Dungeons and Dragons, improv drama groups, volunteering, hiking, gym, yoga??
Get her to connect with a social group based on her interest.
One day she is going to be a woman with grown children that doesn't know what to do with herself!
Take a share off of the mental load for her.. make a chore chart/schedule and get things done before she needs to ask you. It makes this easier and more organized for everyone.
Some other suggestions but definitely not needed:: Buy her some lingerie. Something you like and something more modest she would be into (a baby doll style top?) Get her some skincare products to encourage her to look in the mirror every day and create a caring ritual with herself. Buy her something comfortable AND cute/flattering to lounge around the house in.
He's allowed to do with the console what he wants.
The games are yours, take them back and let him donate the console.
Careful there buddy, you're 1 letter off
Tbh if you work part time and he full time,you should take care of majority of the housework. Let him be the “bread winner” and carry the finances,while you keep the house in order and take care of eventual children in the future.
Listen,im a man myself who do my own chores in the house eventho i work full time and its ok,but if i have a gf that works part time id expect her to take care of the majority of housework,because well thats fair and thats how proper relationships work. You either 50/50 everything (doesnt work mostly) or you give more in 1 area(house) and less in another (finance) – like a real symbiose would work.
Hes lost women before because of the kid