Because the ex isn’t going to be at the wedding therefore isn’t a major player in the post. Blame directed at the ex wouldn’t add anything to the story.
Well here’s the thing, you said this is what he does, so also know this is what he will do with everything. So if you don’t want to do all of the work planning, which I understand, don’t. If you don’t want a full blown wedding stop planning one by yourself. Schedule weekly wedding planning meetings, divide the duties and if he’s not doing his, then they’re not done. If you do want to try to have the wedding, you have the meetings and tell him what’s happening and if he has a problem with it ask him when he was going to plan and schedule it.
But yes, good you’ve stopped, get your deposits back for now and show him you won’t be doing this.
It’s time for her to grow up. She can’t be married to you while overburdening you out of convenience due to being afraid of upsetting her family— if you are married then she needs to be focused on her new family.
First off don’t ever give anybody your financials, and to have known them for a long time. And even then be sparing. Secondly, there’s something wrong with him. He almost reads abusive. That’s the way over reaction for your taking a writing course you’re a grown adult person you can do what you want. It’s dangerous because you’ll have other things to do besides him.
You're making a very common mistake, which is to confuse “this is a thing that I want” with “that thing is a rule, and also, that rule is unsaid and exists only in my head.”
There's no “rule.” If you wanted to send someone hot photos of yourself that were sent on a completely conditional basis – you can do that. But you need to make that clear BEFORE you send them, and the other person has to agree. Otherwise, there's no such limitation.
Also, sad fact of life – all of your exes occasionally think about you when they J/O and if you've sent any of them nudes, they're almost certainly using them.
That’s so fucked up..
Because the ex isn’t going to be at the wedding therefore isn’t a major player in the post. Blame directed at the ex wouldn’t add anything to the story.
Well here’s the thing, you said this is what he does, so also know this is what he will do with everything. So if you don’t want to do all of the work planning, which I understand, don’t. If you don’t want a full blown wedding stop planning one by yourself. Schedule weekly wedding planning meetings, divide the duties and if he’s not doing his, then they’re not done. If you do want to try to have the wedding, you have the meetings and tell him what’s happening and if he has a problem with it ask him when he was going to plan and schedule it.
But yes, good you’ve stopped, get your deposits back for now and show him you won’t be doing this.
It’s time for her to grow up. She can’t be married to you while overburdening you out of convenience due to being afraid of upsetting her family— if you are married then she needs to be focused on her new family.
why does it matter if he admits or not
you have proof
thats all
you dont need his permission to leave
First off don’t ever give anybody your financials, and to have known them for a long time. And even then be sparing. Secondly, there’s something wrong with him. He almost reads abusive. That’s the way over reaction for your taking a writing course you’re a grown adult person you can do what you want. It’s dangerous because you’ll have other things to do besides him.
I remember seeing this quite a few years ago, but it was from people ingesting bleach. Iirc, it was an 'oxidation cleanse' or some shit like that.
But yeah, they were pooping out their intestines
You're making a very common mistake, which is to confuse “this is a thing that I want” with “that thing is a rule, and also, that rule is unsaid and exists only in my head.”
There's no “rule.” If you wanted to send someone hot photos of yourself that were sent on a completely conditional basis – you can do that. But you need to make that clear BEFORE you send them, and the other person has to agree. Otherwise, there's no such limitation.
Also, sad fact of life – all of your exes occasionally think about you when they J/O and if you've sent any of them nudes, they're almost certainly using them.