I was the very first person to reply to this post. OP did not share that extremely important part of the story. I stand by my comments based on the information I had.
He's allowed to do what he wants. You can't exactly force him to get something he doesn't want. If this is a deal breaker for you, then you can just leave.
Thank you for the suggestion. I will look this up. I do agree passion is traded for security. We have talked about it, just last night things came to ahead prompting my post. How is it that he can still feel all this passion but I canβt π
yeah, seems a bit sus.
It's a good option now. You learn to fight fair and settle problems toward a positive outcome. Recommend it.
I don't wanna vote to burn the journal so I'll leave a useless comment instead
It sounds like you do want to control his friends.
So what if you find it weird? If he's not going outside the agreed upon bounds of your relationship with her, why do you care?
I was the very first person to reply to this post. OP did not share that extremely important part of the story. I stand by my comments based on the information I had.
He's allowed to do what he wants. You can't exactly force him to get something he doesn't want. If this is a deal breaker for you, then you can just leave.
Someone suggested going to a lawyer even to just know my options so Iβll probably do that
No it is fucked up. He resents him, that feeling will never go away.
she will work 10x harder to earn it back
This is not something measurable. When will it be enough? He will just hold things against her and then they will break up again.
Thank you for the suggestion. I will look this up. I do agree passion is traded for security. We have talked about it, just last night things came to ahead prompting my post. How is it that he can still feel all this passion but I canβt π
Kick rocks son! The next one will be better.