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  1. I was out of it meaning really drunk and I woke up not remembering a thing. There’s him saying what happened. I’m in disbelief and then he says to me I can’t believe you can’t remember anything and being dead nasty and saying I started it all, even though I was drunk and could not remember a thing. I know for a fact I would not initiate things with him when I really wasn’t aware of what happened or what was going on. I really hate this, I don’t see him as a friend anymore. He says we did it and I will accept we did. But in my mind I know I would never have gone there with him like that

  2. You weren’t aware of what was going on though because you can’t remember it. Do you know how bad you act when you’re black out drunk? You definitely don’t act aware and considering you remember going to sleep…

    I’m sorry, but no matter what he says, you did not consent to that. You were drunk. Point blank.

  3. He's right if you use his definition of 10 being perfection. If you use the more common definition of 10 being, as someomne else put it, “gorgeous, stunning, absolutely beautiful”, then there are still no perfect 10s, but there are plenty of imperfect 10s.

  4. It sounds like you would just like your gf to have some empathy for you. The fact that she expects you to listen to her complain, but if you have ever complained she doesn't empathize at all. Your commute time? She can't just say “that sucks.” Really? Of when you say you are tired and drained she can't say something supportive like,” of course you are, you leave so early and it was a long day. I'm so proud of all you do! You are amazing!”

  5. It’s been an abusive relationship.

    There's your answer. You can't expect reasonable behavior from him.

  6. What did you say? It sounds really odd to tell people not to joke when you are furious. How often do you get furious?

  7. Your girlfriend shares her emotions with her friends and family. That's normal. If it's a problem for you, then you need a more reserved girlfriend, more emotional sharing with your friends, or a therapist.

  8. Your girlfriend shares her emotions with her friends and family. That's normal. If it's a problem for you, then you need a more reserved girlfriend, more emotional sharing with your friends, or a therapist.

  9. ok and? he made things awkward, not you. i'd tell your shared friends he's been sexually harassing you and you blocked him. if they're defending him, they're not your friends. if he keeps harassing you on college grounds, i'd look into if there's any way to report it.

  10. Fine, I'll tell him that. But I do not know how to explain to you that given our country's culture, people's habits of interacting with each other. Going out of your way to verbally apologise for this can very well come across as “i know this made you uncomfortable so I'm gonna bring it up again just to get another reaction, and since now i have apologised you cannot be mad at me for anything creepy i further say”

    In western cultures I think apologies are like these big deal but people only do when they actually mean it. Here, people will fake apologise for shit they didn't even do just to make you feel guilty and feel like you owe them stuff.

  11. There’s no way to move forward except to get your life functioning without him, then find a time and space to grieve and cry.

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