He doesn't love you. No man that actually loves you would force you to do this. He pimped you out for his own pleasure, and, when you told him that it's left an emotional and psychological mark on you, he gaslights you. You need to find the video, get rid of it, hopefully he doesn't have it backed up anywhere, and you need to move back where your family lives. Then you need to seek out psychological therapy to help you dal with this.
You will be hurt and angry because she's a liar with no morals and wherever you go, you'll never have anyone give you any reassurance. Women will tell you to get over it because it's her past blah blah.
Men will tell you to break up and stop talking to her forever and go to the gym/invest in stocks.
Depending on how long y'all have been together, you maybe could still keep in contact. But I recommend heavy punishments and breaking up.
You set a boundary that she did not respect and instead of being overwhelmingly sorry and taking accountability, she made it all about her mental state and a bunch of bullshit excuses. Anything to avoid admitting she's a shitty human being.
Your feelings are very valid. Never mind a boyfriend. Imagine a friend or over-achieving coworker following you from job to job and out-doing your every accomplishment. That would be insanely annoying. It's also generally a terrible idea to work at the same job as a spouse or bf. The awkward dynamic it could create if either he or you gets a promotion and becomes a superior over the other? You absolutely should share those thoughts.
First off, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Here are a few things to keep in mind: – People who hold suicide over your head to punish or manipulate you are people who will never actually kill themselves – they are far too self obsessed. It’s a tactic. – manipulators have some sense of intelligence which is how they get away with doing horrible things. he talks a big game threatening to tell people about HIV – meanwhile if he ever disclosed ur private info (like having HIV), you’d be able to sue the fuck out of him. trust me, he won’t do this lol
You gonna have to prove he can trust you. How did you get from him driving a lot to him being in trouble? I am confused? Whom car is it?
He doesn't love you. No man that actually loves you would force you to do this. He pimped you out for his own pleasure, and, when you told him that it's left an emotional and psychological mark on you, he gaslights you. You need to find the video, get rid of it, hopefully he doesn't have it backed up anywhere, and you need to move back where your family lives. Then you need to seek out psychological therapy to help you dal with this.
I've dealt with this.
You will be hurt and angry because she's a liar with no morals and wherever you go, you'll never have anyone give you any reassurance. Women will tell you to get over it because it's her past blah blah.
Men will tell you to break up and stop talking to her forever and go to the gym/invest in stocks.
Depending on how long y'all have been together, you maybe could still keep in contact. But I recommend heavy punishments and breaking up.
You set a boundary that she did not respect and instead of being overwhelmingly sorry and taking accountability, she made it all about her mental state and a bunch of bullshit excuses. Anything to avoid admitting she's a shitty human being.
Your feelings are very valid. Never mind a boyfriend. Imagine a friend or over-achieving coworker following you from job to job and out-doing your every accomplishment. That would be insanely annoying. It's also generally a terrible idea to work at the same job as a spouse or bf. The awkward dynamic it could create if either he or you gets a promotion and becomes a superior over the other? You absolutely should share those thoughts.
First off, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Here are a few things to keep in mind: – People who hold suicide over your head to punish or manipulate you are people who will never actually kill themselves – they are far too self obsessed. It’s a tactic. – manipulators have some sense of intelligence which is how they get away with doing horrible things. he talks a big game threatening to tell people about HIV – meanwhile if he ever disclosed ur private info (like having HIV), you’d be able to sue the fuck out of him. trust me, he won’t do this lol