Right, this isn't something I've ever done before. It's not someone I have to work closely with every day and I didn't intend on liking anyone, especially after the situation I got out of. But I wouldn't think waiting until after he proposes lol.. would you be ok with that?
I love games, and that has been a point of contention with my wife at points in our relationship, but you're looking at buying a house with a guy who can't walk away from games for more than an hour to spend time with you. There's a lot of maintenance involved in owning a home. It's very time consuming and expensive, even when you have brothers in law who are an engineer and a house builder to help. Is he going to help you with the house? Will be be comfortable taking that time out of his gaming time to help, or does he plan to take that time out of his time spent with you? I don't think this is good idea. Can you buy the house yourself, in your name only? If this all falls apart, and it sounds like it will eventually if nothing changes, you should cover your ass.
The colleague and your husband deserved that. They literally wanted you to to sit there and watch them have sex, but when they didn’t get their way, they both have thrown these massive fits making them look even more idiotic than they did the beginning.
Im sorry for you though. Your husband pretty much ended your marriage when he asked for a swingers night.
Of course she does she used to be abusive so I feel comfortable knowing her every move as even if I went completely private she'd find a way to contact me. So now instead of waiting for the next time she'll get pissed off and force herself into my life I want to give her a proper reason to I wanna piss her off
You are 28 and can celebrate your birthday 15 times a year if you want. A bar mitzvah is once in a lifetime.
Right, this isn't something I've ever done before. It's not someone I have to work closely with every day and I didn't intend on liking anyone, especially after the situation I got out of. But I wouldn't think waiting until after he proposes lol.. would you be ok with that?
I love games, and that has been a point of contention with my wife at points in our relationship, but you're looking at buying a house with a guy who can't walk away from games for more than an hour to spend time with you. There's a lot of maintenance involved in owning a home. It's very time consuming and expensive, even when you have brothers in law who are an engineer and a house builder to help. Is he going to help you with the house? Will be be comfortable taking that time out of his gaming time to help, or does he plan to take that time out of his time spent with you? I don't think this is good idea. Can you buy the house yourself, in your name only? If this all falls apart, and it sounds like it will eventually if nothing changes, you should cover your ass.
I'm wondering if he gave her something or otherwise engineered he bring tired out. It's just sticking out a little as an odd thing…
The colleague and your husband deserved that. They literally wanted you to to sit there and watch them have sex, but when they didn’t get their way, they both have thrown these massive fits making them look even more idiotic than they did the beginning.
Im sorry for you though. Your husband pretty much ended your marriage when he asked for a swingers night.
Of course she does she used to be abusive so I feel comfortable knowing her every move as even if I went completely private she'd find a way to contact me. So now instead of waiting for the next time she'll get pissed off and force herself into my life I want to give her a proper reason to I wanna piss her off
Abuse will keep escalating, I hope you have left for your own safety.
You can self-refer to NHS mental health help. I have had to in the past.
If your husband can't even muster hugging you without getting pissy, why bother? He sounds like a man child from the way you described him.
You nearly got sick from words he said to you and only backtracked when he saw you crying.
Try therapy but this sounds over to me.
Focus on your mom!!!
1) She has limited time. The other thing can wait.
2) That guy shouldn't be prioritized. Especially over your mom. He doesn't deserve it.
You'll regret wasting your mom-time on him.
Compared to his wife, who is working all day every day when you add in the kids and house? Don't see her falling asleep and neglecting the kids.