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She's going to get laser removal soon, well she's been wanting to for awhile but I figured it might be too painful so I was against it but she truly wants it gone so who am I to stop her haha
You wrote all that out and you really can't fathom why he would do this?
You are extremely emotionally abusive and clearly don't give two shits about his feelings, which he's tried to talk to you about before like a GOOD partner who wants a HEALTHY relationship would do. You shut him down each time because his feelings do not matter to you.
I can imagine in a dark moment he wanted to feel loved, appreciated, safe. All the things that should be a priority in a relationship but you do not give him. He told you because you have declined each chance he gave you to hear how you are affecting him.
Silent treatment is not getting better, it's just changing the abuse. You are a horrible partner and should not be in a relationship until you have yourself under control.
As someone who has BPD, it is never okay to hit someone. Literally put yourself in his shoes. I can’t speak for you, but I know someone playing the silent game for me is absolutely triggering. If you know that the things you’re doing would trigger you, but you’re doing it to him he needs to leave this relationship ASAP. Honestly, sorry OP but he deserves better.
Op, this is it. Please leave it after you reassure him. He'll definetly eventually tell you once he is comfortable to.
So let me get this straight… you're seriously considering having children with a convicted felon, who went to jail for physically assaulting you, who sells drugs and guns, and can barely make ends meet financially?
I'm sorry to be harsh, but bringing children into this situation would be extremely selfish and wrong, regardless of how you feel about your bf. Not to mention the fact that you barely know this man as half the time you've spent together he's been incarcerated.
Like, he hurt you, blamed you for it, and you somehow don't think he won't be violent towards you again? And possibly also abuse your future children??! Bc I promise you he will do it again. And the abuse will escalate. He's not even sorry – why wouldn't it happen again?
You should leave him. If you don't want to leave, at least don't bring innocent lives into the equation.
I was recently in a similar boat, and it got better.
It took a bunch of very intense and difficult conversations, a lot of crying on both ends, where I told him that I felt weighed down and held back by his lack of ambition and general lack of interest in life, and he agreed to take steps to improve, and actually did. It took a few years, during which time I considered walking away, and would have if we didn't jump into living together pretty early on. I consider myself very lucky for ending up with a person who had a will to grow and change.
When it started falling apart, after already living together, I told him pretty harshly that before we met, I was active, involved, passionate in so much…but since we'd been together I've been feeling stuck in only making sure he was happy, making sure he didn't feel left behind, which made me abandon my own interests and activities, just so he didn't feel alone.
He had told me that he had been struggling with depression many times before. I empathized every time. And I held myself back, over and over. But, I didn't owe it to him to abandon myself to stand by his side while he got over it.
Being depressed, unemployed, struggling with addiction, no care for keeping your home clean, no life direction, etc…isn't a problem until it starts ruining your life. And I let him know, if something doesn't change, it's going to start ruining a big part of your life, aka, your relationship. Because I got to a point that I could no longer deal with it.
So, he started therapy, and taking medication. And, most importantly, taking personal steps to personally improve. And he's doing very well, and it makes me super happy to see…not just for how it affects our relationship, but because I love him so much and it makes me happy to see him actually feeling better.
In the maternity hospital near me there's a sign on the inside of every bathroom stall door that lists things like “He doesn't believe he's the father/wants a test to prove he is” right alongside things like “He hits you” and “He tries to prevent you from going to your maternity appointments” on their list of abusive behaviors that you can speak to the staff about confidentially to get help. Take from that what you will, but it is abusive behavior.