You have to use paragraphs my friend, this is a nightmare to read.
why am I so obsessed with him after all the fights? arguments? why am i still in love?
Love or infatuated? It's normal to consider going back with an x, no matter how abusive it may be.
creaming & tells me “i will fck a bith from tinder & send you a video of it.” then make up with me & reminds me im not the victim & that he is.
This is what we call abusive behavior.
what DOESNT make sense to me is that he said he still wants to be in contact everyday.
If you're prone to being abusive, emotional or physical, you gravitate to people who will put up with your bs. As they say, abusers work very hard to keep victims in the abusive relationship.
Keeping you in contact keeps you on the hook and/or keeps his fallback plan available.
he also told me not to ask anything about hooking up with other girls or who he’s talking to when he’s there since it’ll make us argue & “ruin” us. & he keeps saying one day we’ll be together soon & how we need to grow.
Yep, that's a big red flag and a run from the hill statement.
Why do you love him? Well I'm sure in between the emotional abuse, he's probably a real nice guy to you. Most abusive partners are like this – one day breaking your nose, next day buying flowers and showering you with love and excuses.
My opinion is cutting off all ties and don't allow him to get his hooks in. His behavior isn't improving nor is he open to discussing it so it can be improved. This is your life, is this how you want to online it going forward?
What to do about the girl? Tell your BF that she's trying to hurt you, and she needs to be cut out of your lives. If he agrees and goes to condition red, then good. He's on your side. If he hesitates and pulls “but she's my friend”/”you're controlling”, then dump him.
This is a fake karma farming story but if it were ever real it wouldn't be that surprising to fall out of love with someone for having shocking opinions out of nowhere.
Though for as fake as this story is outright, the fakest is that this homophobia magically never came up until 8 years in lmao.
Trust me, if she is starting a relationship with him, she will find out soon enough what OP went through. He is not going to change. You forewarned her, that's all you can do.
Well this depends. If she is underage then you need to report it. If she is an adult then I don’t think there is much you can do about it. Either way you need to dump him because he’s a creep and a cheater.
So I am assuming she hasn’t told her parents correct?
Why would I add you to the deed? DON’T YOU TRUST ME??
You have to use paragraphs my friend, this is a nightmare to read.
why am I so obsessed with him after all the fights? arguments? why am i still in love?
Love or infatuated? It's normal to consider going back with an x, no matter how abusive it may be.
creaming & tells me “i will fck a bith from tinder & send you a video of it.” then make up with me & reminds me im not the victim & that he is.
This is what we call abusive behavior.
what DOESNT make sense to me is that he said he still wants to be in contact everyday.
If you're prone to being abusive, emotional or physical, you gravitate to people who will put up with your bs. As they say, abusers work very hard to keep victims in the abusive relationship.
Keeping you in contact keeps you on the hook and/or keeps his fallback plan available.
he also told me not to ask anything about hooking up with other girls or who he’s talking to when he’s there since it’ll make us argue & “ruin” us. & he keeps saying one day we’ll be together soon & how we need to grow.
Yep, that's a big red flag and a run from the hill statement.
Why do you love him? Well I'm sure in between the emotional abuse, he's probably a real nice guy to you. Most abusive partners are like this – one day breaking your nose, next day buying flowers and showering you with love and excuses.
My opinion is cutting off all ties and don't allow him to get his hooks in. His behavior isn't improving nor is he open to discussing it so it can be improved. This is your life, is this how you want to online it going forward?
Move out while he’s gone.
Don’t date someone who disrespects you.
Leave a note. Block and delete. Move on with your life.
Wtf! You look great AND HAPPY!! Dont let him take away your happiness. Dump him. What an idiot
What do I do? I don’t know.
What to do about the girl? Tell your BF that she's trying to hurt you, and she needs to be cut out of your lives. If he agrees and goes to condition red, then good. He's on your side. If he hesitates and pulls “but she's my friend”/”you're controlling”, then dump him.
This is a fake karma farming story but if it were ever real it wouldn't be that surprising to fall out of love with someone for having shocking opinions out of nowhere.
Though for as fake as this story is outright, the fakest is that this homophobia magically never came up until 8 years in lmao.
You would divorce your partner for telling you the truth to a question you asked and demanded an answer to? Would you prefer to be lied to?
You invite them to the wedding. Tell them they should buy new dresses etc and uninvite them the night before. Yes… I'm petty like that
Trust me, if she is starting a relationship with him, she will find out soon enough what OP went through. He is not going to change. You forewarned her, that's all you can do.
Well this depends. If she is underage then you need to report it. If she is an adult then I don’t think there is much you can do about it. Either way you need to dump him because he’s a creep and a cheater.