well, she's not working in nutrition specifically, so even if she does end up giving bad advice about it to patients, there's probably someone else who'll set them straight about it.
True, I feel like it could have gone either way. But OP is really obviously trying to avoid answering the question of whether her boyfriend thought it was exclusive 10+ years ago
But getting actual proof and evidence should come BEFORE initiating divorce proceedings – what if, for once, there actually is an innocent explanation for this? Maybe she's doing a sexy photoshoot to surprise the husband for his birthday? Unlikely, I know, but still in the realm of possibility. Starting divorce proceedings just because of underwear and suspicions would be ridiculous.
Just because he didn't succeed in cheating on you doesn't mean he didn't want to cheat on you. Dump him because he will 100% cheat on you with any girl who gives him 5 mins of attention.
I think you should give her the time to herself she might be desiring. I also think there's about a 20% chance she's seeing someone. I'll probably not. This seems to be about her avoiding intimacy to me. And she's oh I haven't decided yet? Just so you don't have any needs. As though your needs don't matter. It's excruciating to be on the hook like this, I bet. Very different from your deployment my friend! so different I can't even. And that she threw that out there? I'm not impressed by that. She might want you to wait but I doubt she wants you back. I don't think she can handle having someone so close. Not right now. So give her some time to see how it all works out for her. Let her know you can't wait in limbo any longer. That you're going to end the relationship and move on. And that you really hope she's happy and she should feel free to be in touch. And then don't text her. Let her get in touch with you if she wants to.
From one stranger to another, look after yourself and have a very happy life.
well, she's not working in nutrition specifically, so even if she does end up giving bad advice about it to patients, there's probably someone else who'll set them straight about it.
Did you slap him in school?
Yup itβs as good as it is right now.
No wonder you're confused! You have received extremely mixed messages from him, some of them outright flip-flops.
After that much rejection, I wouldn't want to be involved in a relationship with such a person. YMMV.
True, I feel like it could have gone either way. But OP is really obviously trying to avoid answering the question of whether her boyfriend thought it was exclusive 10+ years ago
But getting actual proof and evidence should come BEFORE initiating divorce proceedings – what if, for once, there actually is an innocent explanation for this? Maybe she's doing a sexy photoshoot to surprise the husband for his birthday? Unlikely, I know, but still in the realm of possibility. Starting divorce proceedings just because of underwear and suspicions would be ridiculous.
Yeah, you're right. I surely learnt not to trust people that could end up treating the way he did. I was too young and naive
Just because he didn't succeed in cheating on you doesn't mean he didn't want to cheat on you. Dump him because he will 100% cheat on you with any girl who gives him 5 mins of attention.
I think you should give her the time to herself she might be desiring. I also think there's about a 20% chance she's seeing someone. I'll probably not. This seems to be about her avoiding intimacy to me. And she's oh I haven't decided yet? Just so you don't have any needs. As though your needs don't matter. It's excruciating to be on the hook like this, I bet. Very different from your deployment my friend! so different I can't even. And that she threw that out there? I'm not impressed by that. She might want you to wait but I doubt she wants you back. I don't think she can handle having someone so close. Not right now. So give her some time to see how it all works out for her. Let her know you can't wait in limbo any longer. That you're going to end the relationship and move on. And that you really hope she's happy and she should feel free to be in touch. And then don't text her. Let her get in touch with you if she wants to.