That doesn’t make much sense. There’s rent, utilities, internet, any tv/streaming services and food. All of those things should be split if both of you are using them. Perhaps you can each get your own food, but then you’d both be cooking for only yourselves each night.
And then you both should be cleaning up after yourselves, but sometimes that means cleaning up each other’s little messes.
I think her expectations are completely unrealistic. But I wonder if she’s acting like this to try to get you to propose?
If you’re not ready to propose, that’s totally understandable and reasonable. However, if you want to remain in the relationship, consider taking her to lunch or out for coffee to really discuss what she’s offering so little and if she’s ultimately hoping for a proposal or if she’s concerned about something else. See if you can get her to open up. Hopefully that will help you to understand this better so then you can decide the next course of action.
That doesn’t make much sense. There’s rent, utilities, internet, any tv/streaming services and food. All of those things should be split if both of you are using them. Perhaps you can each get your own food, but then you’d both be cooking for only yourselves each night.
And then you both should be cleaning up after yourselves, but sometimes that means cleaning up each other’s little messes.
I think her expectations are completely unrealistic. But I wonder if she’s acting like this to try to get you to propose?
If you’re not ready to propose, that’s totally understandable and reasonable. However, if you want to remain in the relationship, consider taking her to lunch or out for coffee to really discuss what she’s offering so little and if she’s ultimately hoping for a proposal or if she’s concerned about something else. See if you can get her to open up. Hopefully that will help you to understand this better so then you can decide the next course of action.
Good luck!
Just imagine growing old with someone who cheated, lied, and manipulated you for 12 years. F that S and take your kids.