It works everywhere. Every person you've ever met has some traits that you like and some traits you dislike. The traits you dislike are a consequence of the traits you like. Followers want leaders, and leaders want followers. You match ambition with someone who is content to follow.
Cheating or participating in cheating shows low morals in my opinion.
Nah, there's a huge difference between cheating on someone (eg, breaking an agreement that you made) and being the person someone cheats with (not breaking any agreement that you made).
I know everyone’s saying the same thing. Here’s my slightly different perspective:
My boyfriend cheated on me when we’d been dating barely two months; I forgave him.
He cheated on me again two more times; I forgave him because one was “just sexting.”
He cheated on me with my roommate, I found the photos they took together but I found them right after he’d proposed so I gave him an ultimatum, he “chose me,” and I forgave him.
There were four more women that I found out about over the course of our marriage. One of the times he actually came to me to reveal his own infidelity. He would sob and beg my forgiveness; he would shrug and tell me I’d just have to decide if I trusted him. He gave me an STD that he knew he had but didn’t tell me because he also knew where he’d gotten it.
There was always an external pressure to forgive. What would people think? What would it say about me? What about our son? Okay now what about our two sons? I forgave and forgave and forgave. I set boundaries. I required accountability. We went to counseling.
I finally divorced him. He was remarried within six months, and he’ll probably cheat on her too.
It takes so many steps to go from being faithful to being unfaithful. I genuinely, with all my heart, the entire time we were together, never even got a crush on another man. And there are so many choices made between developing a harmless crush, and betraying your relationship.
People are right. Leave him. It will be nude, but you can do it. Value yourself more than he values you.
No it is not.
It works everywhere. Every person you've ever met has some traits that you like and some traits you dislike. The traits you dislike are a consequence of the traits you like. Followers want leaders, and leaders want followers. You match ambition with someone who is content to follow.
Well stones like to give but never receive so a stone/pillow princess dynamic can be very fulfilling for both partners
He is probably gay.
Cheating or participating in cheating shows low morals in my opinion.
Nah, there's a huge difference between cheating on someone (eg, breaking an agreement that you made) and being the person someone cheats with (not breaking any agreement that you made).
I know everyone’s saying the same thing. Here’s my slightly different perspective:
My boyfriend cheated on me when we’d been dating barely two months; I forgave him.
He cheated on me again two more times; I forgave him because one was “just sexting.”
He cheated on me with my roommate, I found the photos they took together but I found them right after he’d proposed so I gave him an ultimatum, he “chose me,” and I forgave him.
There were four more women that I found out about over the course of our marriage. One of the times he actually came to me to reveal his own infidelity. He would sob and beg my forgiveness; he would shrug and tell me I’d just have to decide if I trusted him. He gave me an STD that he knew he had but didn’t tell me because he also knew where he’d gotten it.
There was always an external pressure to forgive. What would people think? What would it say about me? What about our son? Okay now what about our two sons? I forgave and forgave and forgave. I set boundaries. I required accountability. We went to counseling.
I finally divorced him. He was remarried within six months, and he’ll probably cheat on her too.
It takes so many steps to go from being faithful to being unfaithful. I genuinely, with all my heart, the entire time we were together, never even got a crush on another man. And there are so many choices made between developing a harmless crush, and betraying your relationship.
People are right. Leave him. It will be nude, but you can do it. Value yourself more than he values you.