“She doesn't want to talk about it, but it's not a communication issue”
Bro, that's the epitome of a communication issue.
If I could go back in time I would save myself nine years of heart ache and stress by realizing that someone who can't talk to you about the things that are affecting them and the relationship, isn't ready to be in a relationship.
My only advice is to be extremely clear how toxic of a situation this is. And be real about how it's affecting you: does it make you sad, anxious, stressed, etc? Let her know. If you feel you can't continue this way forever: let her know.
If it's not getting better after a short while and a serious talk or three, you need to protect yourself
“She doesn't want to talk about it, but it's not a communication issue”
Bro, that's the epitome of a communication issue.
If I could go back in time I would save myself nine years of heart ache and stress by realizing that someone who can't talk to you about the things that are affecting them and the relationship, isn't ready to be in a relationship.
My only advice is to be extremely clear how toxic of a situation this is. And be real about how it's affecting you: does it make you sad, anxious, stressed, etc? Let her know. If you feel you can't continue this way forever: let her know.
If it's not getting better after a short while and a serious talk or three, you need to protect yourself
Be honest