Even then it confuses why he would go to such lengths to lie about something so seemingly small. Does he have issues with your mother? I find it weird to prank someone you hate the same way you prank someone you don't hate tbh. As in they allegedly do this to his mom who is abusive. But are pranking you or your mother in the same manner.
You're absolutely right, i did say i didnt want to ask my wife to sacrifice time with her family, especially as she may not see them for another year.
Im just worried as i love my wife dearly no matter how many headaches she gives me and have taken on a fair ammount of debt so we can afford a immigration lawyer and build a life together, i want her to come back alive and well and not in the mourge.
I showed my wife my post and expressed my feelings, she said she will be okay and not to worry.
But its hot not to with the way that vehicle is driven
I feel like the dude is the one in danger of getting murdered. OP is probably posting from a big white van if they're asking “is it weird to take a man to a secondary location if I've only texted them once?”
Buddy I fought the same battle you are, but for nearly 10 years. I thought it could change, that she was the best I could get, that she'll grow to be more respectful.
It resulted in me losing my confidence slowly and becoming much more reserved. That made her emasculate me even more. Eventually she wanted a “real man”, someone who takes charge. I find this out after discovering she had been seeing someone else for months. We ended it and she stayed with him. He ended up being an abuser and she regretted it, but of course there was no way I was coming back. Then of course it turned out she had cheated several times in the past decade of our relationship.
What you are talking about with your situation is one of the(very few, to me at the time) red flags I ignored about this woman, because I was in love and she was the one.
If she is looking down on you when you are vulnerable, she is not the one.
I don't know why I want to that's kind of what I'm trying to figure out, and if I can't then just stop myself from wanting to. Asking her is probably what's going to happen but I wanted to try and save her the awkward question first.
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Even then it confuses why he would go to such lengths to lie about something so seemingly small. Does he have issues with your mother? I find it weird to prank someone you hate the same way you prank someone you don't hate tbh. As in they allegedly do this to his mom who is abusive. But are pranking you or your mother in the same manner.
My gut says something is off regardless.
Tell her before he finds a way to paint you as the liar.
You're absolutely right, i did say i didnt want to ask my wife to sacrifice time with her family, especially as she may not see them for another year.
Im just worried as i love my wife dearly no matter how many headaches she gives me and have taken on a fair ammount of debt so we can afford a immigration lawyer and build a life together, i want her to come back alive and well and not in the mourge.
I showed my wife my post and expressed my feelings, she said she will be okay and not to worry.
But its hot not to with the way that vehicle is driven
I feel like the dude is the one in danger of getting murdered. OP is probably posting from a big white van if they're asking “is it weird to take a man to a secondary location if I've only texted them once?”
Buddy I fought the same battle you are, but for nearly 10 years. I thought it could change, that she was the best I could get, that she'll grow to be more respectful.
It resulted in me losing my confidence slowly and becoming much more reserved. That made her emasculate me even more. Eventually she wanted a “real man”, someone who takes charge. I find this out after discovering she had been seeing someone else for months. We ended it and she stayed with him. He ended up being an abuser and she regretted it, but of course there was no way I was coming back. Then of course it turned out she had cheated several times in the past decade of our relationship.
What you are talking about with your situation is one of the(very few, to me at the time) red flags I ignored about this woman, because I was in love and she was the one.
If she is looking down on you when you are vulnerable, she is not the one.
I don't know why I want to that's kind of what I'm trying to figure out, and if I can't then just stop myself from wanting to. Asking her is probably what's going to happen but I wanted to try and save her the awkward question first.