My boyfriend 23m and I 24f haven’t been the same since I had our baby.
5KMe and my boyfriend have been struggling since I had our baby acouple days ago (June 16th). We've only been dating for about a year and just welcomed our new baby into the world. When in the hospital I had two male doctors check if I was dilated enough and my boyfriend says that has turned him off completely. He said it feels like he has lost his “treasure” He's upset that some nurses saw me very hot and is uncomfortable with me, pulling out my breast to feed our new baby when people are around. He told me he has lost a lot of love and trust in our relationship because of this. He says it feels like I cheated on him. it really hurts me because there's nothing I could've doneand it up having to get an urgent C-section. I wasn’t dilating past 8 cm and my epidural failed It was really excruciating for me mentally and physically, and feeling like he wasn’t there for me just made it so much harder . I was just trying to give birth to our baby. Our relationship hasn't been the same since we don't online together so I've been staying at my mom's house since I've had the baby and he's only come to visit twice and when he was here, he said he doesn't feel comfortable laying next to me. He doesn't want to cuddle me and we hardly kiss anymore. My heart hurts so bad I don't know how to help him get over this and I don't know how to get over it myself either I feel so unwanted I feel so alone just having had our baby I feel like I'm doing it all by myself, I just don't know what to do anymore. What can I do to help us get past this?
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