Kindly, why are you trying to include him in this decision? In your OP, there is little to nothing you’ve written to indicate including him would be healthy – for you.
You need to be selfish right now. He is not a partner. He is unreliable. Per your words, he may be experiencing a psychotic break. Read what you wrote and answer honestly: “how does involving him in this decision benefit me?”
This pregnancy – are you fully prepared to be tied to this guy for the rest of your life? Are you fully prepared to spend years frustrated and watching a child be treated poorly by a suspected narcissist?
Don’t tell him. Take care of you and your future.
Exactly right.
Stupidly honest?
I don't understand how anyone in a normal committed relationship thinks those things about their SO
Sometimes protecting yourself feels that way if you weren’t taught about healthy boundaries as a child.
You mean she wants you to have self control and not do it every day?
That's unreasonable to you?
This is al on you if you stay.
Okay, I see your point. Thank you.
Run for the hills, my dude.
You need to run from her
Dump her block her..
She is trying to baby trap you. Sadly shes not realizing getting pregnant early your both traped .
No traveling or getting to experience things your dream about because your taking care of a baby. Then a toddler and struggling to cover diapers.
Dump her and run..
Also photo the conversation so if she is you can show a lawyer she did it to trap you.
Demand a dna test to if she turns up preg
Kindly, why are you trying to include him in this decision? In your OP, there is little to nothing you’ve written to indicate including him would be healthy – for you.
You need to be selfish right now. He is not a partner. He is unreliable. Per your words, he may be experiencing a psychotic break. Read what you wrote and answer honestly: “how does involving him in this decision benefit me?”
This pregnancy – are you fully prepared to be tied to this guy for the rest of your life? Are you fully prepared to spend years frustrated and watching a child be treated poorly by a suspected narcissist?
Don’t tell him. Take care of you and your future.