I was friends with a couple. I had, and still have, no interest beyond friendship in him. We would all 3 hang. Everything was cool.
She was supposedly my friend too. But when I zoomed out, anytime I needed something she was unavailable. She never reached out first or initiated plans. I tried to share some more personal stuff with her to make her feel welcomed and safe and got a brick wall.
So I just started associating more with him. He reached out. He included me. He checked in when something happened. He opened up to me in reasonable ways in a reasonable time frame as I did him. Our friendship was 50/50.
And then she got pissy that I didn't chase her anymore.
This is that only in a romantic relationship. Most jobs understand “personal emergency”. There was really NO other option? Work from home after picking him up? Make up the time? Come back in after ensuring he was ok? Finding someone who COULD pick him up? A sibling or another friend? You just went “Lol sorry can't help, work is more important, sucks to be you”???
You left him high and dry. He did what he had to do. You don't get to be pissed. You did fuck all. Not even the bare minimum.
Those apply to charges around statutory rape, not images/media/cp. Romeo/Juliet doesn’t apply.
Here's a story for ya.
I was friends with a couple. I had, and still have, no interest beyond friendship in him. We would all 3 hang. Everything was cool.
She was supposedly my friend too. But when I zoomed out, anytime I needed something she was unavailable. She never reached out first or initiated plans. I tried to share some more personal stuff with her to make her feel welcomed and safe and got a brick wall.
So I just started associating more with him. He reached out. He included me. He checked in when something happened. He opened up to me in reasonable ways in a reasonable time frame as I did him. Our friendship was 50/50.
And then she got pissy that I didn't chase her anymore.
This is that only in a romantic relationship. Most jobs understand “personal emergency”. There was really NO other option? Work from home after picking him up? Make up the time? Come back in after ensuring he was ok? Finding someone who COULD pick him up? A sibling or another friend? You just went “Lol sorry can't help, work is more important, sucks to be you”???
You left him high and dry. He did what he had to do. You don't get to be pissed. You did fuck all. Not even the bare minimum.
He didn’t know. OP is distraught because because based on the ages the ex was a potential teenager when hubby dated and got her pregnant.
Your conscience might be kicking in here. You know that cheating is wrong and you don’t feel good about it, so your body is cock blocking you.
Wow that's actually messed up
You're all a bunch of tramps. Bet yous all stink and look like shit.
Thanks for the replies guys, why can’t I see all of them though?
But he’s single?
Actions speak louder than words. Pay attention to that. She’s not ready for a relationship in real life. Move on.
i wish more people understood this…