How do I (19f) tell my mom (44f) about a mistake I made
6KI did something that will ruin my relationship with my mom but she deserves to know. The other night I was at a party and was drunk, I could barely even walk or talk and I was a mess, but I texted her and asked if she could pick me up. She was asleep so I texted her boyfriend, him and mom are 40 something, they’ve been together for a year. I just needed a ride home and he was awake and agreed. He came and picked me up and he started rubbing my thigh and I didn’t tell him to stop and one thing led to another and he went down on me I didn’t tell him to stop. I woke up sober and its something I never would’ve done sober and its my fault.
We didn’t have sex but I feel disgusting and I don’t really remember much but I know it happened and I feel sick I can’t even look my mom in the eyes and I just wanna tell her what happened but I am afraid. She doesn’t deserve to be with a cheater and she doesn’t deserve to have a liar daughter that does stuff with her boyfriend I feel ashamed and I am sorry she deserves to know the truth she’s my best friend but she won’t be after I tell her the truth. I am so sad and hate myself. Her boyfriend is acting like we should continue this and he keeps trying to have sex with me and keep it on the down low.. I need to tell her I can’t keep this in. I tell her everything and I know she’s going to hate me but I made a mistake and I need to own up to it.
How do I approach having this conversation with her?
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