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Be clear very early on that you’re looking for something serious and long-term. You’re not quite to the point when most of the dating pool’s looking for the same, so stay patient and don’t be afraid to walk away. Have a “what do you want in life?” discussion early. Do they want a wife? Kids? Are they planning to online in a place you won’t/can’t? This shouldn’t be you picking out your wedding colors, just getting a vibe of where they’re going.
You need to know what you want and don’t want in your forever person and stick to that. This absolutely means you’ll be rejected and rejecting more, and that can be nude. Learn to be okay hearing no and moving on. The trick is weeding out the people who don’t want the same forever quickly, not avoiding ever having to interact with them.
Yes I am more of dad to my step-son than his own and vice versa.
Our kids have known each other since first grade.
The FIL was involved in his grandson’s life when he was very young- before I met my wife. But they had a falling out which never really recovered. FIL met his granddaughter twice and my older daughter never. Once was when we invited him for dinner and my daughter was at her mom’s house.
As for the SAHM I told her I don’t care what she chooses. She could do it forever or not. She said she wants to go back to work after our youngest is in school.
He knows how bad it hurts when a spouse cheats. He knows how it hurts and can’t recover from it yet he didn’t care about your feelings only his sexual gratification. Then his behavior towards you was so disrespectful yet he didn’t care.
He will have to be in contact w his ex for a long time. How many more times will they start talking and “miss the old times “ and do it again? His ex was all happy because she knew she took him from you and she knows exactly how it feels to cheat so she didn’t care about your feelings at all. She was proud she took another man who is in a relationship.
This would be a deal breaker because this isn’t some random hookup. Old feelings can come back especially after making love w you’re ex and now there’s the potential they could get back together because he forgot how bad she hurt him and he wanted to be w her more than you. Now the ex has wrecked another relationship and she knows now she can have him anytime.
You’re not married, no kids so as hot as it will be to leave you won’t have any more connection to him to keep seeing him.
He chose to do this. He knew how bad it would hurt you and did it anyway.
Yeah, this is it. She came to you as soon as she realized she had actual feelings, because while it hurts, she needs you to know it’s not purposeful, she still loves you, and she wants your help in putting it behind her. She didn’t want to have a crush. She didn’t seek this guy out. Some people are just good matches and so a crush can develop. Some people are also more prone to crushes. I totally have have a natural affinity to crush on people. I haven’t since I’ve been with my husband, but that’s because I’ve been able to not be forced to worked too closely with someone like your wife has been. Hell, I’ve had crushes on multiple guys at the same time.
If I ever feel like I maybe might start to crush on someone that’s not my husband, I just back off. Spend less time with them specifically. It has only been socially because my work has been solo for a while, so it don’t have to interact with others for it. Its easier to separate from a social situation then a work one.
My brain is very rash and impulsive. It craves dopamine like nobody’s business. A crush is a huge source of dopamine, so it tries to make them everywhere. I actually crush on my husband all the time. And I crush on platonic friends too. If I ever had a romantic crush on someone, I’d immediately tell my husband and cut contact as much as possible. Just like your wife did.
I know it hurts, but she for sure did the right thing, and 100% loves you.
He is not. This is not an open marriage, this couple is practically divorced but officially married due to insurance.
Mark has no empathy. He is also incredibly bound by rules and unable to see any nuance. Why OP wants to stay married to him is a puzzle to me. These kind of men are the worst ones.
asked if he’s watching me and waiting for my mistakes.
That's exactly what he is doing. And now he is punishing you (silent treatment) because you caught on and questioned him.
Y'all need counseling, individual counseling. His actions are abusive and you should never do couples counseling with an abuser.
I bet, if you really thought back on your relationship, you'd find other instances of him being over critical, questioning why/how you do things.
Does he even help you with your child? Help around the house? Doesn't sound like it. You are sick and should be resting and healing, doing what needs to be done for baby, that's it. He should be helping around the house and cooking on occasion.
He also said this about the boyfriend from that time.
They didn’t see often, sometimes he disappeared for months with no communication at all, and since she had zero experience in relationships she didn’t know that wasn’t OK.
Pretty sure it's hardly cheating of the person you are dating ghosts and cheats on you. It is also possible they went on breaks. Plenty of shitty relationships have periods of breaking up and getting back together. I wouldn't jump to conclusions without all the details.
Be clear very early on that you’re looking for something serious and long-term. You’re not quite to the point when most of the dating pool’s looking for the same, so stay patient and don’t be afraid to walk away. Have a “what do you want in life?” discussion early. Do they want a wife? Kids? Are they planning to online in a place you won’t/can’t? This shouldn’t be you picking out your wedding colors, just getting a vibe of where they’re going.
You need to know what you want and don’t want in your forever person and stick to that. This absolutely means you’ll be rejected and rejecting more, and that can be nude. Learn to be okay hearing no and moving on. The trick is weeding out the people who don’t want the same forever quickly, not avoiding ever having to interact with them.
That’s a lot of questions ?.
Yes I am more of dad to my step-son than his own and vice versa.
Our kids have known each other since first grade.
The FIL was involved in his grandson’s life when he was very young- before I met my wife. But they had a falling out which never really recovered. FIL met his granddaughter twice and my older daughter never. Once was when we invited him for dinner and my daughter was at her mom’s house.
As for the SAHM I told her I don’t care what she chooses. She could do it forever or not. She said she wants to go back to work after our youngest is in school.
He knows how bad it hurts when a spouse cheats. He knows how it hurts and can’t recover from it yet he didn’t care about your feelings only his sexual gratification. Then his behavior towards you was so disrespectful yet he didn’t care.
He will have to be in contact w his ex for a long time. How many more times will they start talking and “miss the old times “ and do it again? His ex was all happy because she knew she took him from you and she knows exactly how it feels to cheat so she didn’t care about your feelings at all. She was proud she took another man who is in a relationship.
This would be a deal breaker because this isn’t some random hookup. Old feelings can come back especially after making love w you’re ex and now there’s the potential they could get back together because he forgot how bad she hurt him and he wanted to be w her more than you. Now the ex has wrecked another relationship and she knows now she can have him anytime.
You’re not married, no kids so as hot as it will be to leave you won’t have any more connection to him to keep seeing him.
He chose to do this. He knew how bad it would hurt you and did it anyway.
Man, If she doesn't change her underwear often and you've had sex with her.. I don't even want to imagine what that rooms smells like.
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Yeah, this is it. She came to you as soon as she realized she had actual feelings, because while it hurts, she needs you to know it’s not purposeful, she still loves you, and she wants your help in putting it behind her. She didn’t want to have a crush. She didn’t seek this guy out. Some people are just good matches and so a crush can develop. Some people are also more prone to crushes. I totally have have a natural affinity to crush on people. I haven’t since I’ve been with my husband, but that’s because I’ve been able to not be forced to worked too closely with someone like your wife has been. Hell, I’ve had crushes on multiple guys at the same time.
If I ever feel like I maybe might start to crush on someone that’s not my husband, I just back off. Spend less time with them specifically. It has only been socially because my work has been solo for a while, so it don’t have to interact with others for it. Its easier to separate from a social situation then a work one.
My brain is very rash and impulsive. It craves dopamine like nobody’s business. A crush is a huge source of dopamine, so it tries to make them everywhere. I actually crush on my husband all the time. And I crush on platonic friends too. If I ever had a romantic crush on someone, I’d immediately tell my husband and cut contact as much as possible. Just like your wife did.
I know it hurts, but she for sure did the right thing, and 100% loves you.
You can’t ask him to live in a sexless marriage. It’s ok for you to not want sex but you don’t get to force that on him.
He is not. This is not an open marriage, this couple is practically divorced but officially married due to insurance.
Mark has no empathy. He is also incredibly bound by rules and unable to see any nuance. Why OP wants to stay married to him is a puzzle to me. These kind of men are the worst ones.
Have you tried plan Z ?
asked if he’s watching me and waiting for my mistakes.
That's exactly what he is doing. And now he is punishing you (silent treatment) because you caught on and questioned him.
Y'all need counseling, individual counseling. His actions are abusive and you should never do couples counseling with an abuser.
I bet, if you really thought back on your relationship, you'd find other instances of him being over critical, questioning why/how you do things.
Does he even help you with your child? Help around the house? Doesn't sound like it. You are sick and should be resting and healing, doing what needs to be done for baby, that's it. He should be helping around the house and cooking on occasion.
I mean it was prefaced to contact a lawyer immediately (or before anything else).
He also said this about the boyfriend from that time.
They didn’t see often, sometimes he disappeared for months with no communication at all, and since she had zero experience in relationships she didn’t know that wasn’t OK.
Pretty sure it's hardly cheating of the person you are dating ghosts and cheats on you. It is also possible they went on breaks. Plenty of shitty relationships have periods of breaking up and getting back together. I wouldn't jump to conclusions without all the details.
Thanks lol