Is he using porn a lot? Masturbating a lot? Maybe this is something to talk about. If he was not, would he have a lot more urges to be sexual with you?
He obviously has another sexual outlet. He has not gone 6 months without an orgasm. (I know reddit is about to pop up with some contrarian bullshit like “he could have trauma” or “he might be asexual”. Ignore that noise please.)
I dunno why women won't take the bull by the horns here. Ask him what is tge problem. Ask how he is ejaculating. Tell him to stop it and put his energy into you or the wedding is off.
When you talk about the fact that he doesn't ask you questions anymore, what does he say?
Is he using porn a lot? Masturbating a lot? Maybe this is something to talk about. If he was not, would he have a lot more urges to be sexual with you?
He obviously has another sexual outlet. He has not gone 6 months without an orgasm. (I know reddit is about to pop up with some contrarian bullshit like “he could have trauma” or “he might be asexual”. Ignore that noise please.)
I dunno why women won't take the bull by the horns here. Ask him what is tge problem. Ask how he is ejaculating. Tell him to stop it and put his energy into you or the wedding is off.
Trauma bonding over what? Iām confused.