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You were already paranoid when you counted the condoms the first time… When you counted the condoms the second time your paranoia has now turned into red flags…. Talk to him and see what he says… Don't let him fool you though
do nottttt convert to islam …. especially if its only for ur bf
I do all this with my friends.
Why are you trying to control another human being? That's the crucial question.
He didn't put on a condom last night and I reminded him that I could get pregnant. He said that it wouldn't happen soon since it took a long time to get pregnant with my son.
Yikes. You had a child when you were 16 years old but it took a “long time” to get pregnant? Sounds like the two of you were 14 / 16 years old when you started trying for your first kid.
The age gap is rather large. If you had a 21-year-old male friend and they were dating someone 14 years old, what would you think? The 14 year old could be as mature as you'd like, but the reality is that you'd probably assume something was wrong with your friend for dating someone in such a different stage of their life. (Beyond the legality and other moral issues, obviously).
This isn't a judgment call on you, but you have to realize that you're in completely different stages of life and the balance of power is not in your favor. Most decent grown men would not sleep/enter a relationship with someone half their age because they have nothing meaningful to offer one another. Beyond sex, what are your life goals? Do you align on financial matters? What about children? What about careers? Have you ever paid taxes or lived on your own?
You are missing a lot of experience that can ONLY be gained with time. This puts you in a massive disadvantage in a potential relationship, especially with someone who can use that experience for leverage. Would you want to sleep/date a 16-year-old? Would you be proud to take that 16-year-old with you to your job and introduce them as your significant other? Put a state on FB? If not, why? Once you list out those reasons, continue by asking yourself why your FWB would want to sleep/date with you instead of someone his own age.
The feelings portion of all this is pretty irrelevant, but since you're asking, he might be. But feelings alone aren't substantial enough. If you move forward with your relationship, keep an eye out for red flags such as early talks about pregnancy, discontinuing education or relocation away from family/support groups. I also suggest keeping finances separate.
It's going to be like a cartoon where she takes off so fast he's looking at a girlfriend-shaped cloud that filled the space she was standing in.
y'all dated for 9 years without ever talking about kids??
Did you want your BF to give you permission to friendzone this shitty guy so it would be easier to you to replace him when needed? Yes. You already thought you received it as your BF told you he agreed with the supposed boundaries you marked…… LOL Which boundaries? Everything is the same as before. You are already in contact with him, he is waiting for your split, which is near, and your BF is gaslighted by you. I hope your bf can know a better girl next time.
Listen, I don't wanna shit on other people because I know all men are different and porn isn't inherently bad and this and that, BUT my boyfriend doesn't watch porn. And I know lots of guys will try to come in here and say “he definitely does” like they think no man is different than them, but he definitely doesn't watch porn. And it's not something I really asked him to do, it's something he chose to do. Early in our relationship he told me it was because he felt guilty looking at other women. More recently he's said he just doesn't find other women appealing. We have been together for a year and a half. We have an amazing sex life.
You've only been with this guy for 4 months. It's time to cut your losses early and find a different guy. Addiction is a terrible thing and shouldn't be your problem. You shouldn't be giving up your sex life for some guy you've been with for 4 months. Sex is important. And yeah, some people can online without it, but what happens when you're together for 2 years? 5? 8? What happens when you want a family and the love of your life (if you can even have such feelings for someone who's let their addiction leave you in a sexless relationship) and he can't even finish to make it happen? Having a child is the deal breaker for me. If my partner didn't want kids I'd seriously reconsider. I don't know how you feel about that subject, but is sex and a family things you're willing to give up for a guy you've been dating for 4 months?
Not gonna lie, it's one aspect that many people tend to look forward to. Maybe there aren't kids or you get to go to new places and have drinks and get to mess around someplace new, whatever the case may be.
It sounds like your brain has shaped anything related to sex into a very awkward negative thing so add that to the list of things to bring up in therapy. I think you will be much happier if you can get comfortable with sex being a normal natural, fun experience and detach the anxiety and shame aspect from it. Good luck.
No, you’re right. I worded it that way originally because his actions don’t match his words. But if the prejudice is present enough to make me feel alienated in my own relationship….
He's pathetic. He needs you to pretend to be weaker than you are so he can pretend to be strong. And he thinks you owe him that because he's the man and it's his God-given right to be better than his woman. But you being less will not make him more, and you're not the one stopping him from “being a man.”
His attitude is gross and his insecurities are sad. Go find a man who appreciates your strengths and doesn't ask you to be less than you are.
That being said, it doesn't appear that she prioritizes me over her ex currently
You asked her when she was free and it seems she had previous plans. Or she made plans with him instead. Maybe she's seeing you instead of him some days and it's not that your prioritized behind him but simply just how the last few days have went… or she was talking to him about moving on… or trying to get back.
Sounds like it's time to have that conversation with her and ask her if she's done with her ex and ready to commit to a closed/monogamous relationship. Or ask her what her timeline is for breaking it off finally and completely with him. Or is there a timeline?
lots of unknowns. lots of fuzzy details.
You're not in a relationship again if you keep turning down his offers. Which I strongly recommend.