He probably genuinely doesn't understand where you are coming from. If you had done the exact same thing to him he probably wouldn't be bothered by it, and so doesn't see why its a big deal.
I would just explain it as clearly as you can, and if he still treats it like it's not serious then proceed from there however you feel is right. I would emphasize that you were touched by him putting himself out there, and putting in his own words how he felt about you, only to find out it was basically just a hallmark card that he agree'd with. How its kinda the difference between baring his soul vs seeing someone else bare their soul and him saying, 'yeah, same'.
Dump the “friend” and have at ‘er girl
Time to leave. The only “punishment” involved in a healthy relationship dynamic should be the kind involving safe words.
why are you strangling her if she’s slapping you? shouldnt you just grab her wrists?
He probably genuinely doesn't understand where you are coming from. If you had done the exact same thing to him he probably wouldn't be bothered by it, and so doesn't see why its a big deal.
I would just explain it as clearly as you can, and if he still treats it like it's not serious then proceed from there however you feel is right. I would emphasize that you were touched by him putting himself out there, and putting in his own words how he felt about you, only to find out it was basically just a hallmark card that he agree'd with. How its kinda the difference between baring his soul vs seeing someone else bare their soul and him saying, 'yeah, same'.
I think it is not a coincidence that you are 1000 miles away, her behavior is awful..
If you care about this shit, then go back to her house sometime. Duh.