I went to your profile and wow you use reddit a a TON. This was my most active day in months. What do you for a living? And yes my boyfriend is incredible, I hope you have one too. I'm not Catholic and I don't have any religion, thanks for the concern! My personality is quite inviting actually, I say what I want, do what I want. Always have. This makes me have real friends and real connections since I'm not fake. Like you, I also like anime and watched a lot growing up. Never got bullied for it because i stand my ground. Im correct on my choices, other people are simply missing out and not quite getting it. Im very firm on my beliefs and my choices have proven to be good so far. pregnancy In Portugal is quite low too in case you didn't know 😉 and why would i fuck random dudes as a teen in Portugal if I don't need that sort or validation? Not everyone needs a life of promiscuity to be happy. Im good enough with my long term relationships. I never had flings, people tolerate me for more than a couple weeks so I get to maintain around the people I like without fearing them going away. So idk what your little mind is making up about me but you definitely got me all wrong. Go find other threads to spend your time on, op deleted this one anyway
I don’t necessarily think your request is ridiculous. But it seems like he has his own issues and isn’t even interested in meeting you halfway or finding compromises.
You said it’s a long-term relationship…I would really sit down with yourself and decide how you really want to be treated by a romantic partner. Figure out your limits and boundaries. You deserve to have a partner that cares about you. Both with actions and words. At the moment, this guy is unfortunately not it.
Who said I want to benefit from her money? I'm saying I, as the homeowner, am in a position to benefit whatever she decides to contribute towards.
So here's an example scenario. We decided to upgrade the kitchen and each contribute 5k towards it. Shortly after the kitchen is finished, we break up and she moves out. I decided to sell the house. Suddenly that $10,000 investment in the kitchen raises the home appraisal considerably. Now is it fair for me to reap the benefits off her investment towards the house? Of course not. At a minimum I pay her back the 5k she put towards it.
I went to your profile and wow you use reddit a a TON. This was my most active day in months. What do you for a living? And yes my boyfriend is incredible, I hope you have one too. I'm not Catholic and I don't have any religion, thanks for the concern! My personality is quite inviting actually, I say what I want, do what I want. Always have. This makes me have real friends and real connections since I'm not fake. Like you, I also like anime and watched a lot growing up. Never got bullied for it because i stand my ground. Im correct on my choices, other people are simply missing out and not quite getting it. Im very firm on my beliefs and my choices have proven to be good so far. pregnancy In Portugal is quite low too in case you didn't know 😉 and why would i fuck random dudes as a teen in Portugal if I don't need that sort or validation? Not everyone needs a life of promiscuity to be happy. Im good enough with my long term relationships. I never had flings, people tolerate me for more than a couple weeks so I get to maintain around the people I like without fearing them going away. So idk what your little mind is making up about me but you definitely got me all wrong. Go find other threads to spend your time on, op deleted this one anyway
I don’t necessarily think your request is ridiculous. But it seems like he has his own issues and isn’t even interested in meeting you halfway or finding compromises.
You said it’s a long-term relationship…I would really sit down with yourself and decide how you really want to be treated by a romantic partner. Figure out your limits and boundaries. You deserve to have a partner that cares about you. Both with actions and words. At the moment, this guy is unfortunately not it.
You may be dumb. Leaving them alone to Thrash it out was both cowardly and lazy of you. You effed around and found out.
wtf
Prepare to be a single mother. This man is not fit to be a parent or a support system for you.
We live! together and all… but I get what you’re saying
Who said I want to benefit from her money? I'm saying I, as the homeowner, am in a position to benefit whatever she decides to contribute towards.
So here's an example scenario. We decided to upgrade the kitchen and each contribute 5k towards it. Shortly after the kitchen is finished, we break up and she moves out. I decided to sell the house. Suddenly that $10,000 investment in the kitchen raises the home appraisal considerably. Now is it fair for me to reap the benefits off her investment towards the house? Of course not. At a minimum I pay her back the 5k she put towards it.