I gotta say, looking at your history, you and your boyfriend are both terrible people, and you should really try not to be so proud of your homophobia. It comes off pretty trashy.
You can tell them, if you think it will help. Otherwise, it causes drama. If she spent the money, you can't get it now. I'd take her to court if it's a substantial amount of money.
Looking back I should’ve ran when I found the snapped in half computer keyboard in the drawer but I had something to prove I guess
I gotta say, looking at your history, you and your boyfriend are both terrible people, and you should really try not to be so proud of your homophobia. It comes off pretty trashy.
You can tell them, if you think it will help. Otherwise, it causes drama. If she spent the money, you can't get it now. I'd take her to court if it's a substantial amount of money.