She said it and there's no reason to assume she didn't mean it – your partner is trying to excuse for her crappy behavior to you and that's going to be a problem if it's not addressed. If he's building a life with you, he needs to put him mom in her place where it's not appropriate to be shitty to you. Unfortunately, if she's decided not to like you, there's really not much you can do other than avoid her when possible and be polite the rest of the time. At the end of the day, it's his mom and he needs to manage that relationship better.
Yeah, I’m not a fan of the Polly lifestyle. It causes all kinds of boundary issues and there’s always drama with it is so like swimming in the kiddie pool
Yes, I do.
She said it and there's no reason to assume she didn't mean it – your partner is trying to excuse for her crappy behavior to you and that's going to be a problem if it's not addressed. If he's building a life with you, he needs to put him mom in her place where it's not appropriate to be shitty to you. Unfortunately, if she's decided not to like you, there's really not much you can do other than avoid her when possible and be polite the rest of the time. At the end of the day, it's his mom and he needs to manage that relationship better.
Yeah, I’m not a fan of the Polly lifestyle. It causes all kinds of boundary issues and there’s always drama with it is so like swimming in the kiddie pool