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1. Take this from my perspective I am not Muslim myself but due to business and friendships I have a lot of exposure and experience with Muslim people and their religion and culture. It’s a very warm and welcoming people. A very conservative culture with its own identity and social mores.

   I have read the Quran and the Hadith myself. I had to familiarize myself as I had to live in Saudi Arabia for three years for a long term project.

   Your boyfriend needs to do several things. First he needs to make your relationship halal or kosher. Meaning right now not being married and having sex and having a child outside of marriage is a major sin. Second he needs to lay off the pressure. He can’t force you to convert as it would be an invalid conversion because the imam would ask you if you are being forced to convert. So it would not be allowed. Your conversation needs to come from you.

   The marriage thing has to come from him. He needs to reach out to local Muslims and they would say the same thing. That being said. Why on earth would he move to Arabia? I lived in Saudi Arabia. They don’t allow people to come in without permission and you need to have a job and there is no citizenship in Saudi Arabia. I know because I lived there for three years.

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3. If you have the fetish it can in fact survive after having kids. In fact I'm 38 and in the community and many of us have kids and some of us didn't even understand our kink until well after having kids. We just keep it separate from them.

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4. I appreciate it. I feel better today, just very frustrated. Thank you for your input ?

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5. Throw her out, you can find someone that won’t do this to you

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6. I'd pull this card honestly. “What are the dates? I might get Sally to stay over while you're away playing honeymoon” that would very quickly put her in her place

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   Hi guys, I'm planning to see my therapist in a couple of weeks to discuss the subject matter but I just want to hear some outside perspective for a moment, perhaps from someone who's maybe has been in a similar situation.

   I've been in a serious relationship with my partner for four years. We on-line together, aren't married, no kids. We met relatively young but we both dated around a lot and such and pretty quickly realized we were a good match. Overall, we've definitely had issues but we have stable communication and a loving supportive relationship. We're pretty much on the same page about various essential aspects of life as a couple, such as finances, children, etc.

   My partner has a brother with a physical disability. He is a wheelchair user that can't move to and from the wheelchair without assistance. His mental state is not impacted by anything so he has a remote job, etc. Ever since he's been born my partner's parents have been taking care of him without any extra help. It seems like they didn't “believe” in paying someone to help them with these “family matters” so that was not an option for them based on their personal values. One of their parents has passed away a couple of years ago so lately only my partner's mom was helping the brother with his daily life. Now mom is getting older and her health is also declining so my partner wants to move in his brother with us.

   We do not own an apartment/a house, we both have pretty good incomes but so far we're only able to rent. My partner also doesn't feel like he can just hire a professional to come help his brother, it has to be family. He has brought up this request recently and we've discussed it thoroughly. He even said that he'll understand if I want to break up with him considering that I'm a person who loves their independence, their personal space, etc. But I really don't want to end our relationship and, at the same time, I know that it will be challenging for us to no longer have a place that's fully ours as a couple where we don't need to compromise with anyone and have another adult who needs our help there.

   So far, we've agreed on a couple of things:

   We've agreed that when the brother will need to move in, we'll find a two-bedroom apartment. This was something I insisted on because I strongly believe that in order for this to work, we will need a room that's ours and a separate room for his brother + shared space where we can host friend gatherings and such

   We've agreed that we'll try our best to prioritize each other when needed and spend time alone as a couple. That we'll still try to keep our relationship fun and adventurous, etc.

   We've agreed that we'll go to therapy if things get too challenging or we feel the need too

   We've agreed to get occasional professional assistant ie when we want to go away for a trip or something

   It seems ok but I'm honestly scared. I love him very much and I definitely get along well with his brother, I just don't know how this is going to work. Deep down, I don't want to deal with this, I just want to be a normal young-ish couple who has their space and enjoys life. But I also value him and our relationship so much, I have zero desire to break up. Any insight and opinions appreciated.

   Tldr: partner wants us to live together with his brother who has a disability and needs care and I don't know if I'll be able to handle it.

   Edit: the brother doesn't really know what he wants because he wasn't raised even remotely independently, they have never explored options that may allow him to on-line a life separately from his family. I do strongly support him being able to advocate for himself and will try to encourage this on whatever I can as a non-family member. It may sound crazy the way they're living but we're from Eastern Europe and while it's definitely possible to on-line a normal adult life as a wheelchair user, most families, especially in small towns and villages just don't know that it can be done that way. This is the case here, I don't think they maliciously didn't teach their son to be independent despite his physical limitations, they just kind of accepted that it's the only way.

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