Let me emphasize that I don’t agree with the partner being not being an asshole. But, the partner may feel less attracted to OP. She did gain weight that’s a fact. OP can try dropping the weight and getting back into a healthy routine and spice up their sex life. If that doesn’t work then the partner is an asshole. Also, half of my feed on tik tok is not teens. It’s mainly young adults and families doing pranks, hair tutorials, or funny Karen videos but again I’m not a weirdo.
Eh
I would just feel it out. I don’t know because I’m not there. Either one might be good or bad
Let me emphasize that I don’t agree with the partner being not being an asshole. But, the partner may feel less attracted to OP. She did gain weight that’s a fact. OP can try dropping the weight and getting back into a healthy routine and spice up their sex life. If that doesn’t work then the partner is an asshole. Also, half of my feed on tik tok is not teens. It’s mainly young adults and families doing pranks, hair tutorials, or funny Karen videos but again I’m not a weirdo.
You're saying that you're not attractive? Based on what?
Should I keep this on the back burner? And just wait until the right time?
Thank you! That does sound like a good idea