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This is exactly what happens when one partner is gaslighting the other.
Here's the thing. People are as good and as bad as they are at the same time. Parts of her love you. But she is not behaving in a loving manner. You'll have to learn to accept that she can love you and not love you at the same time and that it's not healthy and you have to leave.
You're such a good person that you're trying to convince yourself she is a totally good person, because you love her and to contemplate that she had bad parts of her feels like a betrayal of your love for her. And makes you feel guilty for feeling that way. But the truth is that every person in the world is complex and has good AND bad traits. Her bad traits are real and they do not diminish her good traits, but they also cannot be excused.
You cannot allow yourself to be treated poorly going forward. The more you give in because you love her the more you're telling her it's acceptable to treat you that way, and that you'll allow it. You can't do that because it is a betrayal of yourself and everyone who loves you.
I can tell this situation is tough and driving you crazy. Please see a therapist so they can help you navigate this and help you learn to create and enforce boundaries and start to respect yourself.
How's that even possible. There are so many young dudes looking for women in their 40s – probably not all for sincere reasons but still.
There comes a time when we all require our own time. In my opinion she is wrong as not everything revolves around the child. Someone might think differently and we all are entitled to our opinions, I am just saying that is not healthy, and many PHD folks will tell you the same.
Recommendation, why not get a babysitter and go out together. Yes, you are still together but in a different environment. Also going into a therapy will help both of you see the other persons needs and work on bettering your relationship.
I put myself first and foremost. Because I can't help myself or my family if I have a burnout. This is not selfishness. Balance is what we need all the time.
He’s clearly jealous. It wasn’t a problem with your BF before now because it probably didn’t really sink in until he met your friend, and it suddenly dawned on him that it’s a concern. I’m not going to lie, I understand where your BF is coming from. You are close and continuing friends with a guy you had a crush on, and this friend knows it. If I was your boyfriend, I’d be a little concerned too. You might need to back things off with your friend. I don’t think you need to completely cut him out of your life for the sake of “appeasing” your bf, but maybe put some distance between you and your friend, out of respect for your BF. Don’t spend as much time together or talk as much, things like that. Again, you can keep talking to your friend. Let your friend know why, he’ll probably understand. As long as you keep things totally platonic between you and your friend, and you don’t have any feelings left over, I don’t see why you can’t continue to be friends.
Also, sit down and have a heart to heart with your BF. Try to talk it out with him in a calm respectful way. Let him know you don’t have any feelings towards your friend. Tell him you respect him and his feelings. If he’s half the guy you made him sound like in the first few paragraphs, he’ll listen to you, and you can resolve this without too much trouble. This really should be step one. Anyway, that’s my two cents. Hopefully I helped. Good luck!
I feel we are in a similar spot. Thank you for your comment. We talked as well, but since she is coming from a poor background, she looks at money from a whole different point of view. And the burden thing you mentioned, that is on the spot. I hope we will find solutions that make both of us happy.
Yep, she has said that verbatim. We have a 7month old together
And she’s got two autoimmune disorders. Christ.
You can’t force someone to have sex with you. And you can’t force someone to communicate with you either. If he refuse both, the relationship is dead in the water. The question is then only, how will YOU proceed? You can stay without a satisfying sex life and continue a self esteem downward spiral. You can try to keep working with a therapist to offset the negativity you experience in the relationship. But you will probably have to engage in other activities outside the relationship in order to boost your self esteem. Something that makes you feel good, so you have the energy to take on the relationship. You could leave of course, but I’m guessing you’re willing to maintain a sad and troubled relationship because you love him. Although it’s unclear he loves you.
Haha this is bad advice. OP is clearly in love with this person, which is fine. If OP is not attracted to them then it’s a problem because he sounds obsessive. Either way, the friend is probably not going to want to hear this
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