I'm sry. Everyone is just nitpicking everything and I'm just more so ranting. I'm honestly more ashamed that she got so upset. Yes we've done some butt play and experimented but it's not a regular part of our play but it's something I very much enjoy but shes not into. I feel more kink shamed instead of being able to talk to her that I like it. Even tho I've told her that I like it.
So either heβs lying straight to your face and you should break up OR he really believes its being friendly and not flirty so you can never trust his viewpoint in friendly, break up with him.
I'm sry. Everyone is just nitpicking everything and I'm just more so ranting. I'm honestly more ashamed that she got so upset. Yes we've done some butt play and experimented but it's not a regular part of our play but it's something I very much enjoy but shes not into. I feel more kink shamed instead of being able to talk to her that I like it. Even tho I've told her that I like it.
So chill out with relationship, be better version and maybe it will help?
So either heβs lying straight to your face and you should break up OR he really believes its being friendly and not flirty so you can never trust his viewpoint in friendly, break up with him.