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Hmm it doesn't seem you love your gf to the extent of fearing to lose her. It seems you have a curiosity that will not be easily satisfied. Eventually, it seems you will just hurt your gf by trying out new things to satisfy your curiosity. If you aren't afraid to lose your gf and are just going thru the humdrum routine of things, then just break up with her and spare yourselves the trouble. If you do fear losing her, then work on quelling that curiosity of yours and focus more on pleasing your gf and making her feel more happy
Yes I have experienced this. He did it consistently for almost 5 years. I made sure the last time was the last time and never found out what the point was. My early 20s… memories!
Hmmmm. I had an opinion until I got to the abortion part.
Initially I was going to say that based on each of your core values/wants/needs, that you just might not be as compatible as you’d hoped in the beginning.
However…while that still may be the case, her going through the abortion process is no doubt (at least my opinion) taking precedent in her mind over everything else. Even if she is acting like it’s not.
I think you should give this a bit more time, like through the holidays into January. It’s her body (not only her mind, like it’s only your mind, not your body) that has gone or is about to go through a huge huge ordeal.
Consider being extra understanding and attentive to her during the next month. Put your needs aside until mid to late January. Ask her periodically if she’d like to talk or vent about anything at all, including the abortion and let her know that even if she’s not ready to talk, if she ever decides to, you’ll be ready and willing to listen. Even if you’ve already done this, keep doing it. And be gentle and kind when checking-in. Do not be pushy.
I would say after mid-to-late January, depending on how she’s recovering (physically and mentally), you can decide if you want to bring up your concerns about not having some of your needs met.
Again, I understand where you’re coming from. Your feelings are valid. Relationships need to be about compromise and both partners feeling fulfilled, but in my opinion, the abortion process totally takes precedent and pushes your feelings/concerns aside for the time being.
Each woman deals with that in their own unique way. So there may be things she says or does that you just don’t understand, even if you try to. And that’s ok. I truly think you being in a genuinely supportive role at this time is what is best for her. So if you do truly care about her, please consider that.
Wow, thank you for taking the time to comment. I will take your advice and to seriously think what my next steps are. The only thing I am afraid about is never having a child of my own because I really thought he was the only person I'd be with… every thing is so scary.. being my first serious relationship and marriage while this is his 3rd serious relationship and second marriage. So maybe its easy for him to “throw” me away like garbage.
I'll keep saying this till I'm blue.
Loyal people are loyal regardless of the situation.
People who cheat will find a way even if you put the tightest leash on them.
Her friends no matter how wild will never compromise who she is, if you trust her than no you don't need to worry
And following the metaphor, not every family is healthy/kind. Many are abusive.