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OP listen. You should just go ahead and leave her. She’s already set the standard that you aren’t allowed to talk about something you find important since it bothers her, and that’s fair.
She cannot and will not be reasoned with. If that’s her MO, fine. But do you want to be resentful and miserable until she decides she wants to lose weight? IF she ever wants to?
You’re young, go live! YOUR life with your two intact.
This is not a mistake. This is a personality or a habit.
She has a kid and you will never be the example the kid needs in their life. GTFO for the kids sake op. Don't make this like a noble thing you had to do because there's nothing noble with cheating.
Why would accept a proposal from a man you’re having clear and justifiable doubts all the while you have an ex in your mind?
I wouldn’t focus so much on your ex but on the fact that your relationship with your fiancé doesn’t satisfy you both emotionally and sexually. The ex appears not to be a great ex so it’s possibly just a symptom of your issues.
me too, I'm confused, is it both 300k? so 600k down payment, which is pretty good chunk of change and mortgage wouldn't be that much depending on the house, that 150k loan would move the needle up in monthly payments, sure. But if he's doing all of it 300k, what she save up for? the kids?
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OP listen. You should just go ahead and leave her. She’s already set the standard that you aren’t allowed to talk about something you find important since it bothers her, and that’s fair.
She cannot and will not be reasoned with. If that’s her MO, fine. But do you want to be resentful and miserable until she decides she wants to lose weight? IF she ever wants to?
You’re young, go live! YOUR life with your two intact.
Did op and her “gf” cheated on the husbabd of gf?
Because if they did
This is not a mistake. This is a personality or a habit.
She has a kid and you will never be the example the kid needs in their life. GTFO for the kids sake op. Don't make this like a noble thing you had to do because there's nothing noble with cheating.
Why would accept a proposal from a man you’re having clear and justifiable doubts all the while you have an ex in your mind?
I wouldn’t focus so much on your ex but on the fact that your relationship with your fiancé doesn’t satisfy you both emotionally and sexually. The ex appears not to be a great ex so it’s possibly just a symptom of your issues.
me too, I'm confused, is it both 300k? so 600k down payment, which is pretty good chunk of change and mortgage wouldn't be that much depending on the house, that 150k loan would move the needle up in monthly payments, sure. But if he's doing all of it 300k, what she save up for? the kids?