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Alright, I’m going to provide a perspective you may not expect.
I am a child of divorced parents. I found out as an adult that my father had cheated on my mom a while ago, before I was even born. How did this affect my childhood, you ask?
It was cold. My parents were always good to me but towards each other, everything was icy. I never saw them hug, kiss, cuddle, I didn’t even wrap my head around the fact that they slept in the same bed until I was like 7. I kept writing poems about how sad I would feel all the time in the house and I genuinely didn’t understand that marriage was supposed to be a happy, fulfilling thing and not just a job you take on. This might seem crazy obvious to you as you read my words, but it was very subtle at the time. They thought it was working and for my sake, for a while it was. They were always cordial unless they were arguing, of course.
(TW – mention of conversation about sexual assault, though nothing actually happened)
Things eventually unraveled when I was a fresh adolescent. My parents still ended up divorcing due to their distrust and as a result, I didn’t know how to be in a romantic relationship. I had severe anxiety around anyone touching me, so much so that I was asked or implied to say I was sexually assaulted by my therapists at the time. It probably confused them when I said that I have never been touched inappropriately, I just didn’t know how to express affection that way and even things as simple as hugs would get my heart racing because I didn’t understand them. Romantic affection made me so anxious that I would run to the bathroom and throw up. I know this makes it sound like I could be asexual/aromantic but I promise you that even though I was having panic attacks, I very much wanted to be able to give and receive that affection. It was just extremely difficult to desensitize me to those things. Luckily I am in a long term relationship right now and I haven’t had to deal with that physical affection fear in a long time.
All of this to say, please don’t bring children into the world with someone you don’t fully trust. It sounds like the trust between you two has been long broken, and I don’t know if it’s reparable at this point. Your trust issues can be passed down to your future children in ways you don’t even know. They can always tell when something’s wrong, just like I did. I was in a childhood poetry class writing poems about divorce about 3 years before my parents actually decided on divorcing. Children are humans too and they can pick up on many subtle social cues, even if they don’t initially understand them.
A hard but necessary pill to swallow is that love isn’t enough. You can try and convince yourself otherwise all you want, but you cannot take back what you did and how she feels about it, just like she cannot take back what she did and how you feel about it. There is much more to a functional relationship than just love, especially when you decide to involve teaching other humans how to be a human.
Love isn’t enough. And that’s okay, you will be okay.
Cortisol levels of contribute game too that's caused by stress your gut microbiome plays a high roll and you need to check to make sure she doesn't need to have a stent put in that would be the only reason why somebody would get out of breath sitting I'm dead serious about that last one go today please
absolutely tell everyone.
emotional cheating is complicated bc not everyone will have the same standards for what qualifies. if u feel he was cheating emotionally then yes it is but if he stopped when you told him you felt it was crossing a boundary then. idk. you can break up with him if you want i guess but personally i would move on
You broke up? Good work lad. Good for you.
He's not destroying shit. She got a hairstyle she liked, he is a little boy instead of a man. He needs to grow up, it's just hair and he doesn't get to decide nothing.
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4 years? So a 19 year old was dating a 15 year old.
Where are your parents? They should have been calling the police.
It's the same as us geriatric millennials. We thought and did the stupidest relationship things at that age but we didn't have the ability to broadcast it to the world like they do now. Not gonna lie though it's entertaining reading. Much better than Dear Abby ?
She doesn’t want a rental she wants to skip straight to buying a house and she wants to do it without me if she has to (instead of waiting for us to be in better financial positions)
Oooo….kaaayyy.
Well, first and foremost, he needs to get a paternity test. Full stop.
I'm not going to make assumptions or offer advice or opinions.
Paternity test. NOW.
Thanks love! ? Still in therapy, years later but all in all, know that I am better off. I hate them both still but I’ll always hate her a little more lol the cruelest of opportunists.
He is projecting his own actions and insecurities on you, you are better off without that friend in your situation at the moment anyways.
OMG I forgot to add that it was literally the best sex ever so should I try being fwb
Can we chat?