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1. YES.

   Unless this person was a coach, coworker, or mentor with whom you now share a transparent and platonic rapport with as an adult, absolutely not.

   I am 34 and I can tell you RN that I have absolutely nothing in common with a teenager that would be reason enough to begin a long-standing friendship. I like chatting with them, I think their opinions offer some neat perspectives on how we all exist in the world, but I have no desire or inclination to be up at 2am texting or making plans around their school activities because those opinions are SO INTERESTING!

   To be totally clear: I have two good friends that I met at work when I was in my early 20’s (23-25) and they were 15. We also all identify as women primarily. They are both now in their mid twenties and our friendships are still vibrant and very important to me. I trained them both at that job, and as my business was just beginning to get traction, I photographed them as well. I shot both of their HS graduations, one of their sibling’s grads, and this year I also was present as a guest AND photographer for one of their college graduations.

   I have faced scrutiny for our friendship (what do you guys even have to talk about?!) but what it comes down to is intent: I just felt good vibes with both of them! I wanted absolutely nothing but platonic friendship, and I never even once asked them to hide our relationships from their families or other friends. Everything was out in the open because there was absolutely nothing to hide.

   Now we get drunk in our pajamas and play board games on the floor at adult sleepovers. If this isn’t the vibe with your friend, then it’s not kosher.

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2. Once trust is destroyed its difficult to rebuild. Time alone doesn't. And she can't say “,trust me”.

   I suggest you view this job as a test for her. Step back and give her room to hang herself. She'll always be working around men.

   Stop trying to police her. You can't control her long term.

   She's a 24yo adult. She knows how to manage and act. Let her prove she's trustworthy.

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3. Agreed. He’s 18. 18 year olds say stupid things and are still learning. Just help him learn by calling him out when he has crappy things to say that no one needs to hear.

   Remind yourself that this feature is yours and you’re allowed to love it. Please don’t let yourself develop a complex around it, which is also easy to do.

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4. She sounds exhausting – I think you should let her go. This isn’t normal behavior from a mature adult.

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5. Move out. Thats it.

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6. Relax you’re not a pedo, you would know if you were too.

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