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People go bar hopping and cheat too, the person you think you knew all this time a front. How is someone meant to tell one from the other beyond any doubt objectively?
You said yourself, you should be comfortable with your partner having a social life, well you going out bar hopping, potentially getting drunk in an environment where people are looking to hook up, knowing that some people lie and cheat, or just get drunk and make mistakes can make your partner uncomfortable, especially if they have seen or experienced this themselves.
I don’t know if that’s the case here or not, you would have to talk to her about that, but I can see where he was coming from.
I’m not saying you should or shouldn’t do anything, it’s your life you do you, but I am saying I understand where the guy I replied to was coming from.
If you've both been happy up until this point, then ask him what his goals are here. Where does he see the two of you in a year, 5 years, 10 years? Does he see a genuine rest of his life with you? If he refuses to discuss any of this, then something's wrong.
After 6 years together, and living close enough to see each other more than twice a week, it's normal to expect something more. However, if that's not how he sees his future, then you need to take a very close look at your relationship and ask yourself what you want for the rest of your life. If you want to live! together, marry, have kids, and he's just fine living apart and just dating, then one of you is going to have to compromise, either forever, or until one of you has had enough.
He ran out hooked up got a unprotected girl preg and wants to co parent Ate you ready to have him see her on a regular bases and chances are sleep with her more Support another house hold
Give up the extra income for a house or trips or kids you want?
He needs to step up and be there for her and the kid. Not tey to balance two relationships
Sorry, I caused this confusion. I had been talking mainly about the thread I linked and comparing it to this one, so some of the comments are about this post and some are about the AITA post. The school stuff is the AITA guy and the daughter is OP, but they're both the ones being accused of being perverts for wearing underwear.
Now, it's shaken out that OP might actually be a pervert (his talking about being “really close” to his girlfriend's 14 year old daughter. Yuck…) but that wasn't there when this thread started.
No, is not worth figuring out why. It's control at the door of it no matter how you look at it.
OP needs to be dating something like the guy who kindly offered her clean dry clothes and throw the guy who wanted her to sit in wet muddy clothes out.
This is mental abuse that he is deflecting blame from by calling them “jokes”. He is NOT joking, and will continue and escalate his horrible behavior. He knows what he is saying is hurting you deeply, KNOWS it has been painful enough to leave you crying, and he still finds joy is degrading you. Leave him now.
People go bar hopping and cheat too, the person you think you knew all this time a front. How is someone meant to tell one from the other beyond any doubt objectively?
You said yourself, you should be comfortable with your partner having a social life, well you going out bar hopping, potentially getting drunk in an environment where people are looking to hook up, knowing that some people lie and cheat, or just get drunk and make mistakes can make your partner uncomfortable, especially if they have seen or experienced this themselves.
I don’t know if that’s the case here or not, you would have to talk to her about that, but I can see where he was coming from.
I’m not saying you should or shouldn’t do anything, it’s your life you do you, but I am saying I understand where the guy I replied to was coming from.
If she respected you at all she'd have cut off all communication with this guy immediately. But she hasn't.
You can either keep dating someone who has no interest in treating you like an equal partner or date someone else who does.
If you've both been happy up until this point, then ask him what his goals are here. Where does he see the two of you in a year, 5 years, 10 years? Does he see a genuine rest of his life with you? If he refuses to discuss any of this, then something's wrong.
After 6 years together, and living close enough to see each other more than twice a week, it's normal to expect something more. However, if that's not how he sees his future, then you need to take a very close look at your relationship and ask yourself what you want for the rest of your life. If you want to live! together, marry, have kids, and he's just fine living apart and just dating, then one of you is going to have to compromise, either forever, or until one of you has had enough.
Did bff ask your dad's d size?
He ran out hooked up got a unprotected girl preg and wants to co parent Ate you ready to have him see her on a regular bases and chances are sleep with her more Support another house hold
Give up the extra income for a house or trips or kids you want?
He needs to step up and be there for her and the kid. Not tey to balance two relationships
You stY with him you will not have happiness
Dump him move on..
I’ve tried for nearly a year to tell him everything. He just isn’t capable:) I appreciate the advjce
Sorry, I caused this confusion. I had been talking mainly about the thread I linked and comparing it to this one, so some of the comments are about this post and some are about the AITA post. The school stuff is the AITA guy and the daughter is OP, but they're both the ones being accused of being perverts for wearing underwear.
Now, it's shaken out that OP might actually be a pervert (his talking about being “really close” to his girlfriend's 14 year old daughter. Yuck…) but that wasn't there when this thread started.
One would have to believe this dude to assume that. Nice logic
What's the point of being in a monogamous relationship if your partner is going to go overnight party, drink with her ex?
I think you tell her she is free to do what she wants, but that you are moving on.
I can't imagine her being okay with you doing similar.
Yeah this is absolutely not the whole picture.
How has that worked out for you? I’m not asking sarcastically, just actually curious and seeking advice.
No, is not worth figuring out why. It's control at the door of it no matter how you look at it.
OP needs to be dating something like the guy who kindly offered her clean dry clothes and throw the guy who wanted her to sit in wet muddy clothes out.
This is mental abuse that he is deflecting blame from by calling them “jokes”. He is NOT joking, and will continue and escalate his horrible behavior. He knows what he is saying is hurting you deeply, KNOWS it has been painful enough to leave you crying, and he still finds joy is degrading you. Leave him now.
I guess it just comes down to the fact that I don’t want him to think less of me because of my trauma