Feeling bad about breaking up with someone or wanting to give them time to change to be “fair” to them are not reasons to stay in a relationship. Life is too short! You both deserve to be dating someone who is crazy about you, if you don’t feel that way and don’t see that changing then there’s no point. If he isn’t the right person for you, maybe it will make the breakup easier that you haven’t seen each other in a while. Also, if you want to do it, I wouldn’t wait until after the holidays. I would feel so betrayed if my SO broke up with me right after xmas, after we exchanged gifts etc and I realized it was all pretend. Better to let him enjoy xmas focused on his family.
Besides using his car, what other way can you test if he trusts you?
Don’t move in, do ask her out
Feeling bad about breaking up with someone or wanting to give them time to change to be “fair” to them are not reasons to stay in a relationship. Life is too short! You both deserve to be dating someone who is crazy about you, if you don’t feel that way and don’t see that changing then there’s no point. If he isn’t the right person for you, maybe it will make the breakup easier that you haven’t seen each other in a while. Also, if you want to do it, I wouldn’t wait until after the holidays. I would feel so betrayed if my SO broke up with me right after xmas, after we exchanged gifts etc and I realized it was all pretend. Better to let him enjoy xmas focused on his family.
Wtf???
I'm not sure it's so much lack of trust as it is lack of character.
Thank you
Dump the loser. Don't waste any more time. Learn to be more selective.