You need to talk to your girlfriend. If you don't feel desired she needs to know. Do not break up with her for your coworker has shown that she has no desire to respect her boundaries since she continues to pursue you after you told her you weren't interested and were involved. You are very young. Chances of you staying together with someone you started dating when you were 15 are pretty slim. You either go together or you grow apart and you've got a lot of growing left to do. If you decide to break up, break up but please don't date the coworker. If she's not respecting you now she won't respect you in a relationship either.
Keep the friendship, and keep shutting him down as needed. You said yourself, you don't have many friends there. He can be the kind of friend you bump into again in public and can kid around, but not the kind of friend you ask to come to your place for dinner (unless it's a big dinner party).
Not everyone wants to share their lives with their family. If he has a difficult relationship with them then it might just be something he avoids for his own emotional well-being. I'd be more concerned about not meeting his friends though – if he has any? He sounds like a man with significant baggage and that's not always easy for partners to handle. You know better than us if he's worth it though.
That is very odd. Obviously something is going on. Best course of action is to wait for him to tell you what it is. Obviously, don't brush over it. It seems like he's working through something mentally.
Also, this may not be as important, but from the way you worded it, it seems like this may be the first time you guys talked / decided about kids. He asked you “will you want to have kids with me when we get married?” Wouldn't he already know the answer to that question? After 5 years, haven't you talked about the big important stuff like kids already? If not, it seems to me that there could be many other things beneath the surface that you do not know about concerning him.
This is fake because no one would continue a relationship with this many red flags and having a sister kiss and grope him several times in front of them. Continue working on short stories and don’t post the shite in here.
He already has joined in.
Is the pope Catholic?
You need to talk to your girlfriend. If you don't feel desired she needs to know. Do not break up with her for your coworker has shown that she has no desire to respect her boundaries since she continues to pursue you after you told her you weren't interested and were involved. You are very young. Chances of you staying together with someone you started dating when you were 15 are pretty slim. You either go together or you grow apart and you've got a lot of growing left to do. If you decide to break up, break up but please don't date the coworker. If she's not respecting you now she won't respect you in a relationship either.
Keep the friendship, and keep shutting him down as needed. You said yourself, you don't have many friends there. He can be the kind of friend you bump into again in public and can kid around, but not the kind of friend you ask to come to your place for dinner (unless it's a big dinner party).
That’s true, he said he would wear it in formal events but I do want him to wear it around family since we barely see them anyway
OP also paid for her education. At this point OP's biggest mistake might be spoiling her financially.
What is even funny about this?
Bro quit being afraid of change and go see the world.
Not everyone wants to share their lives with their family. If he has a difficult relationship with them then it might just be something he avoids for his own emotional well-being. I'd be more concerned about not meeting his friends though – if he has any? He sounds like a man with significant baggage and that's not always easy for partners to handle. You know better than us if he's worth it though.
That is very odd. Obviously something is going on. Best course of action is to wait for him to tell you what it is. Obviously, don't brush over it. It seems like he's working through something mentally.
Also, this may not be as important, but from the way you worded it, it seems like this may be the first time you guys talked / decided about kids. He asked you “will you want to have kids with me when we get married?” Wouldn't he already know the answer to that question? After 5 years, haven't you talked about the big important stuff like kids already? If not, it seems to me that there could be many other things beneath the surface that you do not know about concerning him.
This is fake because no one would continue a relationship with this many red flags and having a sister kiss and grope him several times in front of them. Continue working on short stories and don’t post the shite in here.