You have done nothing wrong, he is confused and even telling you he confessed, there is a chance he only confessed a little to his girlfriend.
It sounds like too much drama from your friend. Create some distance.if you like the girl, and she likes you, than invest the time to get to know her better
We have a great time together every single other day. Just not on the nights I wanna go out haha. It was easier for me to move where he lives than it was for him to move to me. Im talking a whole ass country here. Lol
That’s not true…it’s advised that all couples do premarital counseling/therapy. Those are the steps we are taking.
He doesn’t communicate with this person regularly. She reached out to him, doing a temperature check on that day only.I don’t think the exchange was appropriate at all. He would never initiate but he didn’t protect the relationship the way he should have.
I’m looking for any advice from someone with similar experience.
I would not say that this is irreparably harmful, but I do need to weigh options.
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Her decision is made and her outlook won't change. I'm confused about what decision I should make and if it something I can withstand until marriage.
the fact that you care who he follows on Instagram is concerning. Like you don't have any weird followers on Instagram or friends on Facebook?
I see…got it. Thank you for your reply, it calms my anxiety about it, haha
You have done nothing wrong, he is confused and even telling you he confessed, there is a chance he only confessed a little to his girlfriend.
It sounds like too much drama from your friend. Create some distance.if you like the girl, and she likes you, than invest the time to get to know her better
That is often different because they are typically given a daily sub allowance so they decide to share.
You should do what's best for you. His insecurities are his to deal with. If he can't handle them, maybe it's best to move on.
We have a great time together every single other day. Just not on the nights I wanna go out haha. It was easier for me to move where he lives than it was for him to move to me. Im talking a whole ass country here. Lol
Occasionally, yes. I saw no harms in it.
That’s not true…it’s advised that all couples do premarital counseling/therapy. Those are the steps we are taking.
He doesn’t communicate with this person regularly. She reached out to him, doing a temperature check on that day only.I don’t think the exchange was appropriate at all. He would never initiate but he didn’t protect the relationship the way he should have.
I’m looking for any advice from someone with similar experience.
I would not say that this is irreparably harmful, but I do need to weigh options.