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She sounds kind of pushy and self absorbed, do you think you really want to make a permanent commitment to this person? The big red flags with her are manipulative in nature. She threatens the relationship over and over again to get her way, that's a big problem that getting married will only worsen.
What are some things you think she might find to be “pros” or “cons” about you?
A lawyer can get the police report and tell you what's in it.if nothing happened he could in turn sue her for Slander and defamation of character. Lawyer up
It is not worth salvaging tbh. File child support and push for a DNA test for all kids. When he sees he’s wrong he may sing a different tune, however i highly doubt it! You deserve better than the shit end of the stick you’ve got
Why would you be with someone that dismisses your feelings and thoughts so easily? Someone that considers a tax break more important than your health? Someone that would be teaching any kids you had how to be bullies to LGBTQ kids or disown any for being that way? There are other fish in the sea and you are young. Let him go find someone that aligns with his views and go do the same.
Yes that hat I have been saying since my initial comment. I told her I was working on it expecting her to be happy and she wasn't and snapped at me and seemed more pissed off/annoyed so I got upset and wanted to be on my own for a while
It is not. And before our baby, it was endearing that he loved his family so much and was so protective over them and I thought he could teach me things in that department. And when I got pregnant I guess I thought that me and our son would fall in that protective umbrella of his…and maybe we would if the problem wasn't with his family. But unfortunately it is, so we don't. If we work it out, therapy is non negotiable and this is one of the primary things we need to talk out in therapy.
When a colleague and later when a friend tried hitting on me I didn't tell explain to them that what they did was wrong and that I'm in a committed relationship and wouldn't betray my wife. But I ghosted and ignored them. And showed my wife before she saw by herself (by accident or whatever). If he doesn't want to rock the boat, there are other ways for dealing with it that wouldn't leave you nervous and anxious about this situation, but it's on him, he should be the one doing his best to reassure you that your relationship is solid and he won't chest, not you. The way you described, it seems he dgaf
I don’t really like watching tv/movies with people. It’s so stifling. But I hear you. I dated someone with awful movie/tv taste and it was excruciating. Maybe you could ask to pick a series together?
She sounds kind of pushy and self absorbed, do you think you really want to make a permanent commitment to this person? The big red flags with her are manipulative in nature. She threatens the relationship over and over again to get her way, that's a big problem that getting married will only worsen.
What are some things you think she might find to be “pros” or “cons” about you?
A lawyer can get the police report and tell you what's in it.if nothing happened he could in turn sue her for Slander and defamation of character. Lawyer up
It is not worth salvaging tbh. File child support and push for a DNA test for all kids. When he sees he’s wrong he may sing a different tune, however i highly doubt it! You deserve better than the shit end of the stick you’ve got
Why would you be with someone that dismisses your feelings and thoughts so easily? Someone that considers a tax break more important than your health? Someone that would be teaching any kids you had how to be bullies to LGBTQ kids or disown any for being that way? There are other fish in the sea and you are young. Let him go find someone that aligns with his views and go do the same.
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Yes that hat I have been saying since my initial comment. I told her I was working on it expecting her to be happy and she wasn't and snapped at me and seemed more pissed off/annoyed so I got upset and wanted to be on my own for a while
It is not. And before our baby, it was endearing that he loved his family so much and was so protective over them and I thought he could teach me things in that department. And when I got pregnant I guess I thought that me and our son would fall in that protective umbrella of his…and maybe we would if the problem wasn't with his family. But unfortunately it is, so we don't. If we work it out, therapy is non negotiable and this is one of the primary things we need to talk out in therapy.
This response is so unhinged, it's not even funny.
When a colleague and later when a friend tried hitting on me I didn't tell explain to them that what they did was wrong and that I'm in a committed relationship and wouldn't betray my wife. But I ghosted and ignored them. And showed my wife before she saw by herself (by accident or whatever). If he doesn't want to rock the boat, there are other ways for dealing with it that wouldn't leave you nervous and anxious about this situation, but it's on him, he should be the one doing his best to reassure you that your relationship is solid and he won't chest, not you. The way you described, it seems he dgaf
I don’t really like watching tv/movies with people. It’s so stifling. But I hear you. I dated someone with awful movie/tv taste and it was excruciating. Maybe you could ask to pick a series together?
OP you are the a hole! Wow your poor daughter ☹️
Jesus christ, they have no shame.