I brought up how I felt and he apologized for how he approached the conversation. He still want me to include my father though
That's not an apology. That's “I still demand you do what I want no matter the cost to your own mental health, but since it seems like you're starting to get second thoughts about marrying me I'm going to dial back the aggressiveness a tiny bit, temporarily, until I've got you stuck with me. Then I will run your life.”
OOOOO thatโs a good one!
There is only one right side on this – yours. Your boyfriend needs to grow up.
I brought up how I felt and he apologized for how he approached the conversation. He still want me to include my father though
That's not an apology. That's “I still demand you do what I want no matter the cost to your own mental health, but since it seems like you're starting to get second thoughts about marrying me I'm going to dial back the aggressiveness a tiny bit, temporarily, until I've got you stuck with me. Then I will run your life.”