Honestly I'm not gonna let myself be a mom to him, so I agree with you. It genuinely hurts me sometimes having to think I'm watching him fail and I can't do anything about it; sometimes I cry when I'm alone just worrying about him. I don't wanna feel like this is my fault for not helping enough, what is he gonna think if he DOES fail and I'm sitting there comforting him through a situation I knew I was gonna witness from the beginning?
In media, sure. But this is not how most responsible adults decide to have children. It usually involves planning and discussion. You generally don't make life changing decisions spontaneous in real life.
Also, I had an IUD. Removing one is a very simple and relatively painless for most women. Generally, your fertility returns immediately and you are able to start trying for a baby right away.
Also most California rental you have to supply your own appliances
Honestly I'm not gonna let myself be a mom to him, so I agree with you. It genuinely hurts me sometimes having to think I'm watching him fail and I can't do anything about it; sometimes I cry when I'm alone just worrying about him. I don't wanna feel like this is my fault for not helping enough, what is he gonna think if he DOES fail and I'm sitting there comforting him through a situation I knew I was gonna witness from the beginning?
In media, sure. But this is not how most responsible adults decide to have children. It usually involves planning and discussion. You generally don't make life changing decisions spontaneous in real life.
Also, I had an IUD. Removing one is a very simple and relatively painless for most women. Generally, your fertility returns immediately and you are able to start trying for a baby right away.
Lol you guys are trying so very hot to make dating a 23 year old sound pedophilic.