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Transitioning is a long mental process. It's naked and arduous. You think about it every day, for a while. It occupies a lot of your mind. You're changing yourself and hoping the world can rise up to meet you. It's a lot of stress and a lot of challenges, and it's extremely expensive. You're right on the money (ha) with that one. I have to do blood work four times a year and constantly go to doctor visits. I'm taking medication I never knew existed.
All that being said, it will ALWAYS be naked. And you can't use that as an excuse to not do things in a relationship. You can always find bad days, you can always find things wrong. You're always changing, so at some point, you're just telling people the stress of it is getting to you and you therefore can't do anything.
If y'all had AGREED to that, it would be one thing. But her putting the financial and emotion burden of household management on you because she's trans isn't cool at all. It's an excuse. There's days I don't want to get out of bed, but my partner is relying on me to help, and I'm going to pull my weight.
It's an expensive lesson to learn, but a good one. Never lend friends and family money, especially without telling them it's a loan. But she's very clearly telling you who she is and the status quo she wants to maintain.
I'd honestly say to cut your losses, my guy. And I'm sorry you've had to go through this.
She claims he is a friend that she has hooked up multiple times in the past, which means she is very comfortable sexually with him. If she is that comfortable with him, more than likely they are or will end up doing it more. She obviously likes the sex and is probably why she keeps him around.
A 27 year old woman shouldn't have their best friend as a former FWB while in a relationship with another guy. She defintely shouldn't be going out 1v1 with him on the side, especially since you have not even met him.
Huge red flags all over the place. This isn't going to work and you know how it will end if you stay. Mature adults don't hang out togther alone while hiding the person from their partner unless there is a reason. She doesn't let you hang out with your female friends alone because she knows what goes on when that stuff happens, yet does it herself. That's crazy.
I think it's fine to turn down some parties here and there, but there should be some show of effort to engage with your friends circle as a way of demonstrating that he cares about the things which are important to you.
So you’re saying you wasted time with her because she has slept with more people than you thought? Did you not enjoy your time with her? You are immature
What I said was “I am not ok with you adding a bunch of random girls all the time.” I let him know that if he wants to continue doing that, that I won’t be accepting of it.
Instead of thinking about the guy. Look up limerence. This works exactly like getting hooked on drugs or something. But given who he is, it's no longer a logical feeling for you as in – there could be more with this guy – and it's really just a biological reaction set up to help you bond with a possible mating partner. (Not this guy).
I suggest you see it for what it is, which is not real. Exercise and find other outlets for the endorphins. Remind yourself that this guy isn't the key to happiness for you. Your not missing your chance here. He is a key to misery.
Personally I think you should bring forward your move out date, stop telling your mother your plans and move out with your boyfriend.
You accept your mothers abuse because you are used to it. Your boyfriend couldn't stand seeing the person he loves being attacked. He defended you strongly (yes, some harsh words were said but he DEFENDED YOU!)
At 30 years old, the time has come to distance yourself from your mom before she twists every one into berating you for staying with her “attacker”.
From what you've said your mom orchestrated the event to trigger the reaction from your boyfriend. Either he responded to her or showed himself to be OK with her mistreating you… it was a deliberate lose / lose situation.
And I'll end on this- even if things don't work out long term with your boyfriend, set yourself up so that you NEVER go running back to your mom. Plenty of women on-line happily in their own place. You don't need to be mom's “frustration target” for the rest of her life.
Transitioning is a long mental process. It's naked and arduous. You think about it every day, for a while. It occupies a lot of your mind. You're changing yourself and hoping the world can rise up to meet you. It's a lot of stress and a lot of challenges, and it's extremely expensive. You're right on the money (ha) with that one. I have to do blood work four times a year and constantly go to doctor visits. I'm taking medication I never knew existed.
All that being said, it will ALWAYS be naked. And you can't use that as an excuse to not do things in a relationship. You can always find bad days, you can always find things wrong. You're always changing, so at some point, you're just telling people the stress of it is getting to you and you therefore can't do anything.
If y'all had AGREED to that, it would be one thing. But her putting the financial and emotion burden of household management on you because she's trans isn't cool at all. It's an excuse. There's days I don't want to get out of bed, but my partner is relying on me to help, and I'm going to pull my weight.
It's an expensive lesson to learn, but a good one. Never lend friends and family money, especially without telling them it's a loan. But she's very clearly telling you who she is and the status quo she wants to maintain.
I'd honestly say to cut your losses, my guy. And I'm sorry you've had to go through this.
Yea, this needs to end.
She claims he is a friend that she has hooked up multiple times in the past, which means she is very comfortable sexually with him. If she is that comfortable with him, more than likely they are or will end up doing it more. She obviously likes the sex and is probably why she keeps him around.
A 27 year old woman shouldn't have their best friend as a former FWB while in a relationship with another guy. She defintely shouldn't be going out 1v1 with him on the side, especially since you have not even met him.
Huge red flags all over the place. This isn't going to work and you know how it will end if you stay. Mature adults don't hang out togther alone while hiding the person from their partner unless there is a reason. She doesn't let you hang out with your female friends alone because she knows what goes on when that stuff happens, yet does it herself. That's crazy.
Hahahahaha…. He lives with his “ex”. Come one now
Just sounds like he's being selfish then.
I think it's fine to turn down some parties here and there, but there should be some show of effort to engage with your friends circle as a way of demonstrating that he cares about the things which are important to you.
So you’re saying you wasted time with her because she has slept with more people than you thought? Did you not enjoy your time with her? You are immature
What I said was “I am not ok with you adding a bunch of random girls all the time.” I let him know that if he wants to continue doing that, that I won’t be accepting of it.
I would suggest not being paranoid.
Of all the things in this world that can kill you, this seems like the most unlikely. Don't become a prisoner of irrational fear.
No it is not equally your moment. Sorry. You are just a visitor at the hospital. She is the patient. She wants them there so they should be there.
Instead of thinking about the guy. Look up limerence. This works exactly like getting hooked on drugs or something. But given who he is, it's no longer a logical feeling for you as in – there could be more with this guy – and it's really just a biological reaction set up to help you bond with a possible mating partner. (Not this guy).
I suggest you see it for what it is, which is not real. Exercise and find other outlets for the endorphins. Remind yourself that this guy isn't the key to happiness for you. Your not missing your chance here. He is a key to misery.
Personally I think you should bring forward your move out date, stop telling your mother your plans and move out with your boyfriend.
You accept your mothers abuse because you are used to it. Your boyfriend couldn't stand seeing the person he loves being attacked. He defended you strongly (yes, some harsh words were said but he DEFENDED YOU!)
At 30 years old, the time has come to distance yourself from your mom before she twists every one into berating you for staying with her “attacker”.
From what you've said your mom orchestrated the event to trigger the reaction from your boyfriend. Either he responded to her or showed himself to be OK with her mistreating you… it was a deliberate lose / lose situation.
And I'll end on this- even if things don't work out long term with your boyfriend, set yourself up so that you NEVER go running back to your mom. Plenty of women on-line happily in their own place. You don't need to be mom's “frustration target” for the rest of her life.