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1. Everybody has been giving you good advice elsewhere and I apologize if someone else mentioned this too (I just didn't want to get lost in the rabbit hole of endless comment scrolling), but I wanted to say this as far as your husband goes:

   If you feel as though eventually you will “deserve” being treated the way he's treating you now, but you don't “deserve” those things yet (ie telling you you're beautiful, wanting to look at you full in the lights during sex, etc…), PLEASE emphasize to him that he should not take away any negativity about his actions and words toward you in that regard, and that you do not WANT him to feel as though he should “give up” those things, especially since you recognize there's a cognitive dissonance that exists that you have to resolve.

   Explain to him that you KNOW being told those things and being wanted that way SHOULD feel good, and you SHOULD feel wanted and validated, but you're just mentally and emotionally in your own way right now, which is preventing you from appreciating those expressions. If you need to, talk to him and ask him if there is a way for him to continue to express those thoughts to you in a way that “current you” can accept and believe (for example, writing you a little complimentary note tucked away somewhere for you to read when you're by yourself, since by your “working out without him” comment, it seems as though you're still self-conscious in front of him in certain situations).

   That way, if verbally or otherwise expressing those things is important to him in order to feel connected to you, he can continue to do so for his mental and emotional well-being, without doing so in a way that undermines his intent by making you uncomfortable.

   I hope that word vomit made sense….

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2. If you think that’s kiss is all that happened you are incredibly naive.

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