So coming from a marriage that while we were dating we did have all of those conversations and our values aligned but some how between when we got engaged and when we had children together many of those values changed dramatically. All of a sudden when I was pregnant with our first together there was an awful lot of talk how I was going to have to accept his values and incorporate them into my parenting of our children. Here I was under the impression we had talked through our values and we were in accordance. We weren’t. He also ended up being an abusive asshat so now I have full custody of both our babies.
Fascinating decision on his part to date someone “young and immature”
Just move on. He already cheated on you.
How do I get over with the fact that he has has sex with more than 1 person before me. I don’t like it. At least he also used condoms.
Red flag my boi
A married woman should not be alone in a hotel room with another man, especially if you have a ounce of respect for your husband
Be sad. Be very very sad. For as long as you need. You can’t escape it, so just go through it
So coming from a marriage that while we were dating we did have all of those conversations and our values aligned but some how between when we got engaged and when we had children together many of those values changed dramatically. All of a sudden when I was pregnant with our first together there was an awful lot of talk how I was going to have to accept his values and incorporate them into my parenting of our children. Here I was under the impression we had talked through our values and we were in accordance. We weren’t. He also ended up being an abusive asshat so now I have full custody of both our babies.