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You're probably right that I shouldn't have agreed to it from the get-go. It blurred all the lines.
And yes, the scenario you described is pretty much one of the options I'm thinking about seriously. Basically being co-parents living together for the next few years.
Your gift is better and way more important imho!
Your boyfriend has some kinda messed up logic there. Everyone enjoys a compliment, but I doubt you're spending a day for a small compliment, more like you're trying to look after your pal.
Thanks for the advice. I'm someone who is more for talking things out then actively boycotting my partner. I'm not trying to start a fight with her. I'll remember this if i see no other way.
I'm concerned about your therapist. Ik she's a professional but addiction is a nasty, ruthless, and relentless thing to fight. Your bf doesn't do drugs, he's addicted to it. If you have your own demons to fight, taking on another demon that is addiction is too much.
Addiction in a relationship is emotionally taxing and toiling. The support Jim needs to overcome his addiction has to be consistent, strong, and unconditional. He's gonna fall off the wagon, have terrible withdrawal symptoms, health issues, and so much more. Recovering from addiction is never a linear path. That's too much to ask from someone who's only been with him for only 2 months. Don't fall for the sunk-cost fallacy. He's a good guy, I understand, but do you have the commitment he needs to go through all that?
He's blaming you for not sticking around for his low moments, but it's not what you signed up for in the first place. He said he'll keep the drugs and you separate, but multiple times, he's wrapped you into it. Drugs is a part of him, and it very clear that he can't stop using without a clear reason why he should other than you, which is bad in itself like you've said.
Just some things to thing on if you really want to commit to this.
She used to tell me that all the time, it means nothing he's just liking my photos why do you care?
Then I saw the DMs and realized my gut instinct was right.
When I asked to see her phone she just started crying. Didn't even unlock it at that point. I knew exactly why she was crying.
So while maybe op is being insecure to an extreme, I know first hand why he's feeling the way he is right now.
Why can't u just get a babysitter and actually spend time with ur wife?
Jesus ur behavior would break my heart if u were my husband. My husband has female friends i have no issue with but it's because HIS FAMILY is his priority!!
We come first. He makes sure we spend time together even if its just a movie night and showing actual affection. U are putting more effort into ur flirtationship with a coworker than ur marriage and wonder why ur wife is upset.
You will single handedly be the cause of ur family falling apart. And ur gonna have to answer that to ur kids oneday!
No you don’t risk your safety. If you risk your safety then what does that mean for all you’ve been through. It’s unfortunate that he’s having such a traumatic response to what’s happened that he can’t face reality, but that doesn’t mean you live in danger. You move out for sure and if you want to continue trying you insist on therapy together.
I think it depends on the phrasing. My partner once full on said after sex “I wish it was bigger”. I laughed and said I sure as hell don't because I can feel that I am at my limit with him as it is and if he got his wish our sex life would be terrible. I got a smile and I love you as an answer so I think (hope) that was okay? I was being completely honest with him and did have an ex hurt me that way and keep going regardless which put me off sex for a long time. It's a refreshing change to have sex and not have to be scared that pain is coming, so I was genuinely surprised when he threw that out there.
Soooo…the universe pimp-slapped you is the moral of this story?
Because he is the one who initiated emotional intimacy with me and did so everytime we interracted with each other. I never initiated anything…
When given this treatment (which was not targeted towards me exclusively), I told him what my boundaries are and distanced myself from him, given the fact that he doesn't understand that ghosting is not okay for ANYONE.