It isn't that he doesn't respect you … you both don't respect your health
You need to separate “sex” signaling for “respect” and “worth” Those are entirely different issues
And lets be frank … you were horny and wanted to fuck. So please dont sugar coat it and transition to him. It sounds like he probably would have said ok if you had said no condom no sex.
Unfortunately, your kids are old enough to see, and internalize, the things your wife is doing. You are not doing them any favors by staying.
That is an excellent question.
It isn't that he doesn't respect you … you both don't respect your health
You need to separate “sex” signaling for “respect” and “worth” Those are entirely different issues
And lets be frank … you were horny and wanted to fuck. So please dont sugar coat it and transition to him. It sounds like he probably would have said ok if you had said no condom no sex.
There it is everyone! Transphobe thrown around when you do not agree ?