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i will talk to her about buying one. she’s anemic so that could be a root cause i did not know that led to depression. I am learning a lot from kind people like you i appreciate it
This is such a cruel, mean, misogynistic, controlling and immature post. So let me get this straight, your views are completely different in terms of marriage and kids. This means you are absolutely wasting this womans time. You want to change everything about the way she looks and your only attracted to her because she looks like a porn star, but you don't want others to be attracted to her in that way as well (you're insecurity is showing). You feel 'embarrassed” to be seen in public with her and you happily scrutinise her appearance on reddit??? At your big age of 34, I think you should check yourself and actually think about why you are with this woman. She doesn't deserve to be treated this way by you. PLEASE for her sake, break up with her so she can find someone who likes her for her and doesn't slag her off all over the Internet.
It's absolutely okay not to want to be with someone who smokes weed. So all you can do is tell him how you feel and what the consequences will be for your relationship. If it's that important to you, stick to your boundaries. Once you start letting people cross your limits, they don't stop. But you also have to be okay with whatever his choice is. No relationship is worth giving up who you are.
Women tend to stay too long in a relationship waiting for the guy to fix their flaws. You likely mourned the loss of your guy and who he was previously already and that’s why you just don’t feel anything right now.
Get out of the relationship asap if you haven’t already. I had a similar experience. Take up a new hobby, start working out/yoga/anything to distract your mind and work on healing. I listened to Jay Shetty for a year on Spotify after a similar breakup & found the man of my dreams a year after.
He said he would do better and I do think he feels guilty about it, but I haven’t seen that yet from him
The Attraction stage of Relationship-Building often has both sexes
saying and doing things to accomplish very specific sexual outcomes.
Just like other mammels, Humans will often posture, and call, and strut
all in the name of getting the copulation accomplished.
I used to liken this to the sorts of behaviors Used Car salesmen employ
to make their sale, but its not quite the same so I cut that out.
All the same, sometimes its not unhelpful to reflect on oneself,
imagining to be a perfect KOBE steak in a room full of Hungry
Dogs. The trick is to find the one dog who is more taken with your
KOBE quality, than viewing you as just a steak. FWIW.
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i will talk to her about buying one. she’s anemic so that could be a root cause i did not know that led to depression. I am learning a lot from kind people like you i appreciate it
Good, I was going to tell you to stfu but you told yourself to do it for me
I actually cannot believe what I've just read.
This is such a cruel, mean, misogynistic, controlling and immature post. So let me get this straight, your views are completely different in terms of marriage and kids. This means you are absolutely wasting this womans time. You want to change everything about the way she looks and your only attracted to her because she looks like a porn star, but you don't want others to be attracted to her in that way as well (you're insecurity is showing). You feel 'embarrassed” to be seen in public with her and you happily scrutinise her appearance on reddit??? At your big age of 34, I think you should check yourself and actually think about why you are with this woman. She doesn't deserve to be treated this way by you. PLEASE for her sake, break up with her so she can find someone who likes her for her and doesn't slag her off all over the Internet.
It's absolutely okay not to want to be with someone who smokes weed. So all you can do is tell him how you feel and what the consequences will be for your relationship. If it's that important to you, stick to your boundaries. Once you start letting people cross your limits, they don't stop. But you also have to be okay with whatever his choice is. No relationship is worth giving up who you are.
Women tend to stay too long in a relationship waiting for the guy to fix their flaws. You likely mourned the loss of your guy and who he was previously already and that’s why you just don’t feel anything right now.
Get out of the relationship asap if you haven’t already. I had a similar experience. Take up a new hobby, start working out/yoga/anything to distract your mind and work on healing. I listened to Jay Shetty for a year on Spotify after a similar breakup & found the man of my dreams a year after.