Oh, if it's just 3-4 times a month, this seems very reasonable to me. You've told him you'd like to come with him, but this is his time without you. You'll simply need to learn to respect that.
Also: STOP asking if you can come with him. He knows you want to come with him and he'll invite you if he wants you there.
Plan some weekend events that DON'T conflict with this time with his friends. Don't try to plan an event that will force him to choose between you and his friends; that would be a really toxic move. But you can plan events earlier in the day on a weekend, for example, if he mostly goes out with them at night.
I’ve never put it into that perspective, you’re right, I have to do this not for her or anyone else, but myself.
How many times has she cheated on you?
It definitely looks fast, but once in a while that’s real. I would be more concerned if you were each 10 years younger.
She probably felt bad at the lack of sex
You've never heard that it's easier and more reliable for men to get turned on then women?
This is not a new idea nor is it an idea that came from Porn…
Oh, if it's just 3-4 times a month, this seems very reasonable to me. You've told him you'd like to come with him, but this is his time without you. You'll simply need to learn to respect that.
Also: STOP asking if you can come with him. He knows you want to come with him and he'll invite you if he wants you there.
Plan some weekend events that DON'T conflict with this time with his friends. Don't try to plan an event that will force him to choose between you and his friends; that would be a really toxic move. But you can plan events earlier in the day on a weekend, for example, if he mostly goes out with them at night.
I wouldn't invite anyone to my wedding who referred to my mother as very fake.