Her sense of smell will likely lessen a bit but after a while of not smoking, the smell of cigarettes will smell stronger to everyone. If you're already not smoking, just keep that up. Your health and family will thank you.
But I feel that she's gone too far by airing our dirty laundry
It's not her dirty laundry, it's yours.
when this should really be kept as a private matter between us.
Why? What reason does she have to keep it private? She has no obligation to preserve any privacy after you randomly asked her for sex. If anything, she's justified to tell everyone that knows you that you're the kind of person that will randomly proposition their friends for sex without any leadup whatsoever.
How long was she dating him before telling you about it? Listening to you when you were sad about the breakup, while she was dating him? That alone screams that she's not someone you should contact again.
Date someone else and still be his friend. ??♀️
He wants to date other people so can you.
You can be his friend but actually keep it platonic and find someone else.
Her sense of smell will likely lessen a bit but after a while of not smoking, the smell of cigarettes will smell stronger to everyone. If you're already not smoking, just keep that up. Your health and family will thank you.
But I feel that she's gone too far by airing our dirty laundry
It's not her dirty laundry, it's yours.
when this should really be kept as a private matter between us.
Why? What reason does she have to keep it private? She has no obligation to preserve any privacy after you randomly asked her for sex. If anything, she's justified to tell everyone that knows you that you're the kind of person that will randomly proposition their friends for sex without any leadup whatsoever.
Why did you marry this person?
How long was she dating him before telling you about it? Listening to you when you were sad about the breakup, while she was dating him? That alone screams that she's not someone you should contact again.