Poke holes in the reality of your crush. Think about the kind of man you want to fall in love with, really fall in love with. I imagine that man would not be (1) a married cheaty-cheater (2) someone who would abuse a power dynamic. Thus your real goal (eventually falling in love) is moot with this person and they aren't it.
I highly suggest practicing professionality (cut out the googley eyes) and looking into ways to find better hobbies outside of your work. Work crushes are often like zoo animals, it's the captivity that makes the attraction happen. Make life outside of work hours engaging and you're less likely to be fantasizing during downtime.
This is not a lose lose situation. This is simply a relationship that wasn't meant to be. You're not compatible. You're able to spend short periods of happy time together, but that doesn't mean you should be in a long term relationship together. You had some good times with her, and they're over now–mostly because of her, tbh, based on your description of events. Move on, heal from this, and find someone new.
Sheโs very unlikely to get help. Why would she let go of her best tool to keep him from breaking up with her?
This is the wrong sub, but ask if he has an art room for Kevin.
Poke holes in the reality of your crush. Think about the kind of man you want to fall in love with, really fall in love with. I imagine that man would not be (1) a married cheaty-cheater (2) someone who would abuse a power dynamic. Thus your real goal (eventually falling in love) is moot with this person and they aren't it.
I highly suggest practicing professionality (cut out the googley eyes) and looking into ways to find better hobbies outside of your work. Work crushes are often like zoo animals, it's the captivity that makes the attraction happen. Make life outside of work hours engaging and you're less likely to be fantasizing during downtime.
This is not a lose lose situation. This is simply a relationship that wasn't meant to be. You're not compatible. You're able to spend short periods of happy time together, but that doesn't mean you should be in a long term relationship together. You had some good times with her, and they're over now–mostly because of her, tbh, based on your description of events. Move on, heal from this, and find someone new.
Yeah,I'm sure there are laws preventing people with serious drug habits from work in that area. Far too big of a security risk.
I'd definitely shell out for some kind of electronic alarm.
You really have to pick a side, and one of these people you're marrying
It sounds like he would rather marry Bob & Sarah.
You sound incompatible. Iโve absolutely never heard of someone losing feelings for someone due to their GPA ?