You might want something a little more certain than a picture — like maybe something with DNA?
He says this happened before you met; do you believe him? Is he generally this careless when it comes to procreating?
Love is nice and all, but if this is his child then he is now going to have a connection to this woman and child for the rest of his life; is that something you can live with? If not, get out now. If you can't be gracious about his child and understanding of the financial obligation it entails, you should get out now.
Oh, and if he's the kind of guy to try and weasel out of his obligations where this child is concerned? I would nope right out.
No wtf the dude. It’s just a dream. Don’t make it weird.
If you’re ever going to do that definitely don’t do it with your girlfriend. Wait till your single and do it with a tandom
That’s how I feel…
You might want something a little more certain than a picture — like maybe something with DNA?
He says this happened before you met; do you believe him? Is he generally this careless when it comes to procreating?
Love is nice and all, but if this is his child then he is now going to have a connection to this woman and child for the rest of his life; is that something you can live with? If not, get out now. If you can't be gracious about his child and understanding of the financial obligation it entails, you should get out now.
Oh, and if he's the kind of guy to try and weasel out of his obligations where this child is concerned? I would nope right out.