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You are seriously de-fucking-ranged. Your assessment of reality is completely off. So is your assessment of what's appropriate or acceptable behavior. You're already in legal trouble for your temper, and that didn't make you pause in the slightest. You came here for advice and instead you're doubling down. Mr. “I hate lawyers, and we should all slug each other if we're upset” and blaming everyone else for your own hideous actions. You're a fucking nightmare.
Thanks for the response. Ugh definitely triggered some self conscious / relationship conscious feelings.
I do feel like the friend has been having some struggles adjusting to living/dating in a new city and have been thinking this might be a factor and might be more about him…
I noticed this as well. The age gap is telling. As is his tik tok habits.
It's not tik toks fault or the fault of the young women dancing on tik tok. But it is really telling as to whom he is attracted too. Sounds like OP is aging out of his ideal and he's just a creep.
It doesn't sound like OP is the problem, but the bf is. He has unrealistic expectations and sounds like he only likes very young women.
I feel bad for OP because she's had kids with this man. But this isn't a good situation. I'm not sure it will change. She can try talking to her bf/husband but not sure if it will change. He seems to not care what she thinks as he's so blatant about it.
You can end a relationship for any reason or none at all. You’re not a passenger.
However to me, it seems like he grew up and isn’t on socials and likely never framed a single photo himself but received them from his ex GFs.
If you want framed photos of you two, frame some photos. ?♀️
I have framed photos from my wedding (now divorced 6 years)those were professional photos. I have framed photos of my ex fiancé from my 20’s. I have zero framed photos of my partner of 5 years and myself in our home. It’s kind of a PITA to go get photos printed. I have framed photos of my horses and dogs—all were gifts from friends. Anything else I have framed is from back when you actually had to develop film.
I dunno. It seems like a very silly thing to break up over especially without talking to him first. Seems like a pretty immature move. But to each their own.?♀️
You're a 35 year old adult woman, driving by the house of someone you've been dating for less than 3 WEEKS, to see if he is where he says he is. I don't understand why you immediately thought he's lying when he said there was a death in the family just because he wasn't going to the funeral? He could have met up with a few family members to hang out that night, just because they weren't close doesn't mean they weren't still family. Then, he said he couldn't hang out Sat, but how about Sunday, and you were pushy and desperate when you asked him but what about when you get back (based on your logic of it only being a 30 minute drive). He says ok if he gets back early enough (when he really meant no, I said Sunday for a reason) and you respond to THAT with don't disappear and let you know either way. You are embarrassing yourself. He said he was at his grandparents, and you all of a sudden are out driving, remembering you had to drop something off in the same neighborhood that he lives in, and drive past his house. Does he have a ring doorbell, or house cameras? Is there even a 1% chance he watched the chick he's dating for 2 and change weeks roll past his house checking up on him? Maybe he hadn't left yet and just didn't feel the need to explain it to you. But THEN, you thought to yourself hmmm let me drive by ONE more time because this is absolutely normal behavior for this situation. NO NO NO, it's not. What this guy was doing doesn't matter, what matters is these are the actions of a person who has severe insecurity issues, immaturity issues, control issues, trust issues, and doesn't seem prepared for a serious, adult, relationship.
You say you have been friends with this girl for years, but you didn't realize she was lying about her birthday?
If you have been friends for years, I would assume you know her birthday.
Your date was right to trust herself and leave the situation. It has nothing to do with insecurity, just the fact that her exclusive boyfriend let another girl sleep in his house and was clearly into him.
You are seriously de-fucking-ranged. Your assessment of reality is completely off. So is your assessment of what's appropriate or acceptable behavior. You're already in legal trouble for your temper, and that didn't make you pause in the slightest. You came here for advice and instead you're doubling down. Mr. “I hate lawyers, and we should all slug each other if we're upset” and blaming everyone else for your own hideous actions. You're a fucking nightmare.
Thanks for the response. Ugh definitely triggered some self conscious / relationship conscious feelings.
I do feel like the friend has been having some struggles adjusting to living/dating in a new city and have been thinking this might be a factor and might be more about him…
Yeah, I don't think that is the bad part.
In all seriousness, I don’t believe it, either, but leaving it clogged like that so many times for her boyfriend to find and fix is so weird!!!
I noticed this as well. The age gap is telling. As is his tik tok habits.
It's not tik toks fault or the fault of the young women dancing on tik tok. But it is really telling as to whom he is attracted too. Sounds like OP is aging out of his ideal and he's just a creep.
It doesn't sound like OP is the problem, but the bf is. He has unrealistic expectations and sounds like he only likes very young women.
I feel bad for OP because she's had kids with this man. But this isn't a good situation. I'm not sure it will change. She can try talking to her bf/husband but not sure if it will change. He seems to not care what she thinks as he's so blatant about it.
Oh yeah that thing, I remember that thing.
I seriously would love to be a stay at home spouse or mom. And I’d take on everything. All the meals, the cleaning, the shopping etc.
What a dream. I know it’s not easy, but some ppl genuinely enjoy homemaking. I guess OP did not marry one of those ppl.
You can end a relationship for any reason or none at all. You’re not a passenger.
However to me, it seems like he grew up and isn’t on socials and likely never framed a single photo himself but received them from his ex GFs.
If you want framed photos of you two, frame some photos. ?♀️
I have framed photos from my wedding (now divorced 6 years)those were professional photos. I have framed photos of my ex fiancé from my 20’s. I have zero framed photos of my partner of 5 years and myself in our home. It’s kind of a PITA to go get photos printed. I have framed photos of my horses and dogs—all were gifts from friends. Anything else I have framed is from back when you actually had to develop film.
I dunno. It seems like a very silly thing to break up over especially without talking to him first. Seems like a pretty immature move. But to each their own.?♀️
You're a 35 year old adult woman, driving by the house of someone you've been dating for less than 3 WEEKS, to see if he is where he says he is. I don't understand why you immediately thought he's lying when he said there was a death in the family just because he wasn't going to the funeral? He could have met up with a few family members to hang out that night, just because they weren't close doesn't mean they weren't still family. Then, he said he couldn't hang out Sat, but how about Sunday, and you were pushy and desperate when you asked him but what about when you get back (based on your logic of it only being a 30 minute drive). He says ok if he gets back early enough (when he really meant no, I said Sunday for a reason) and you respond to THAT with don't disappear and let you know either way. You are embarrassing yourself. He said he was at his grandparents, and you all of a sudden are out driving, remembering you had to drop something off in the same neighborhood that he lives in, and drive past his house. Does he have a ring doorbell, or house cameras? Is there even a 1% chance he watched the chick he's dating for 2 and change weeks roll past his house checking up on him? Maybe he hadn't left yet and just didn't feel the need to explain it to you. But THEN, you thought to yourself hmmm let me drive by ONE more time because this is absolutely normal behavior for this situation. NO NO NO, it's not. What this guy was doing doesn't matter, what matters is these are the actions of a person who has severe insecurity issues, immaturity issues, control issues, trust issues, and doesn't seem prepared for a serious, adult, relationship.
You say you have been friends with this girl for years, but you didn't realize she was lying about her birthday?
If you have been friends for years, I would assume you know her birthday.
Your date was right to trust herself and leave the situation. It has nothing to do with insecurity, just the fact that her exclusive boyfriend let another girl sleep in his house and was clearly into him.
She's apologised though. I would rather believe your take on it though, I know I'm often too cynical.
Your first red flag, a huge one, was the fact that he hid a whole ass kid from you.
Your first red flag, a huge one, was the fact that he hid a whole ass kid from you.